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lostinlv posted 5/29/2013 11:31 AM

Hi all. :) Not sure if some of you remember me, but thought i'd pop in and update and check in on some of you and see how things are going. :)

I finally decided that I was DONE and in December asked STBX for a D. Woot! It will be final in about a week. YEAH!

He decided to leave his job here and move to Colorado with his girlfriend. Yep. I found out that the skank he supposedly had a "one night stand" with in 94/95 when I was pregnant with my oldest daughter, he actually had at least a 2-3 year long steady relationship with, and they have been "off and on" since then!!! NINETEEN YEARS! Plus there were all the others as well... OY VEY!! I'm SO glad I finally got the guts to end it. What a douche.

I am moving to the Oregon Coast in about 2 weeks and am SO HAPPY!! Seriously - if I would have known how happy I was going to be without the asshat I would have done this a LONG time ago. I let fear control me. NO MORE.

dmari posted 5/29/2013 11:33 AM


Love. Your. Post. Thank you for sharing and best wishes to you!!

GabyBaby posted 5/29/2013 11:39 AM

Congrats on taking control of your life, Lost!

lostmommy posted 5/29/2013 12:14 PM

Congratulations! Sounds like your new beginning is a fantastic one!

nowiknow23 posted 5/29/2013 12:16 PM

Lost! Holy Cats - now THAT's an update.

tryingagain74 posted 5/29/2013 12:56 PM

Awesome! Love it! Congrats!

cayc posted 5/29/2013 13:05 PM

The thrill of D'ing and getting away from a philandering, manipulative con-artist. I know it well Awesome lucky you with the new move. I predict a fabulous NB for you and can't wait to hear about it.

tesla posted 5/29/2013 17:41 PM

stronggirl72 posted 5/29/2013 19:01 PM

I am SO HAPPY for you. Its a great place to be, and you did it!!

lostinlv posted 5/30/2013 11:33 AM

Thank you so much, everyone... now to get all of my stuff sorted and packed for the move. Douchebag moved and left it up to me to sort out EVERYTHING here. Not sure why i'm surprised...

scotslass posted 5/30/2013 12:28 PM

Congrats lostinlv!

It's kind of bittersweet to have this new beginning.

I moved out of our marital home last summer and into a much smaller home and I am in the process of painting the interior of our home and planting a perennial garden.

One of the most enjoyable things for me is to pick my own color scheme for the interior and exterior!! I take my small pleasures where I can get them but I have to say I am so loving these "small" things.

Embrace your new life!!

Beautymark posted 5/31/2013 08:43 AM

Hi lostinlv,

I sent you a private message about your move to OR.

Hope to hear from you. If I don't, good luck with everything and I hope you find what you are looking for.

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