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User Topic: Remember me? Finally divorcing!
lostinlv
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Member # 31663
Default  Posted: 11:31 AM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi all. :) Not sure if some of you remember me, but thought i'd pop in and update and check in on some of you and see how things are going. :)

I finally decided that I was DONE and in December asked STBX for a D. Woot! It will be final in about a week. YEAH!

He decided to leave his job here and move to Colorado with his girlfriend. Yep. I found out that the skank he supposedly had a "one night stand" with in 94/95 when I was pregnant with my oldest daughter, he actually had at least a 2-3 year long steady relationship with, and they have been "off and on" since then!!! NINETEEN YEARS! Plus there were all the others as well... OY VEY!! I'm SO glad I finally got the guts to end it. What a douche.

I am moving to the Oregon Coast in about 2 weeks and am SO HAPPY!! Seriously - if I would have known how happy I was going to be without the asshat I would have done this a LONG time ago. I let fear control me. NO MORE.


me, BS-43
him,FWH-42
4 kids (22,20,16,12)
DDay#1 2/?/97 (A with COW in 1995- turns out it never really ended and they are now living together)
DDay#2 4/18/10 -LTA approx 12mos
DIVORCED!!


Posts: 786 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Las Vegas
dmari
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Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Love. Your. Post. Thank you for sharing and best wishes to you!!


Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

Posts: 2335 | Registered: Oct 2012
GabyBaby
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Member # 26928
Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats on taking control of your life, Lost!


Me - 42
SorryInSac (STBX WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Done

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for clarity/typos.


Posts: 6737 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
lostmommy
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Member # 33440
Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! Sounds like your new beginning is a fantastic one!


Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself

Posts: 485 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: NY
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lost! Holy Cats - now THAT's an update.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26489 | Registered: Aug 2011
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 12:56 PM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome! Love it! Congrats!


FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3659 | Registered: Oct 2011
cayc
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Default  Posted: 1:05 PM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The thrill of D'ing and getting away from a philandering, manipulative con-artist. I know it well Awesome lucky you with the new move. I predict a fabulous NB for you and can't wait to hear about it.


"I'm not afraid of storms, for I'm learning how to sail my ship." - Louisa May Alcott

Posts: 3205 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
tesla
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Default  Posted: 5:41 PM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4823 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
stronggirl72
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Default  Posted: 7:01 PM, May 29th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am SO HAPPY for you. Its a great place to be, and you did it!!


"Taking the high road, and doing it with class."

DIVORCED!!


Posts: 155 | Registered: Oct 2012
lostinlv
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Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you so much, everyone... now to get all of my stuff sorted and packed for the move. Douchebag moved and left it up to me to sort out EVERYTHING here. Not sure why i'm surprised...


me, BS-43
him,FWH-42
4 kids (22,20,16,12)
DDay#1 2/?/97 (A with COW in 1995- turns out it never really ended and they are now living together)
DDay#2 4/18/10 -LTA approx 12mos
DIVORCED!!


Posts: 786 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Las Vegas
scotslass
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Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats lostinlv!

It's kind of bittersweet to have this new beginning.

I moved out of our marital home last summer and into a much smaller home and I am in the process of painting the interior of our home and planting a perennial garden.

One of the most enjoyable things for me is to pick my own color scheme for the interior and exterior!! I take my small pleasures where I can get them but I have to say I am so loving these "small" things.

Embrace your new life!!


3 wonderful children (sometimes!!)
18 ds
16 dd
14 ds
Me. - moving on and upward !!!

Posts: 102 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Texas
Beautymark
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Default  Posted: 8:43 AM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi lostinlv,

I sent you a private message about your move to OR.

Hope to hear from you. If I don't, good luck with everything and I hope you find what you are looking for.


Me-BS, early 40's
Him-fWH, early 40's
Married 8 yrs, 6-yr-old DD
DDay#1-November 2011 - one woman (for almost 5 years)
DDay#2-December 2011 - two more women (one lasting about 1.5yrs and the other lasting about 1 year)

Posts: 12 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: east coast
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