He writes this out of the blue: "Please have girls make sure they have everything they need to visit. <> did not have her meds, tooth brush and hair brush and any other things they need including swim suits as we purchased the yet another set last week. Please have <> at <> at 3 pm. We will pick up <> at school as prescribed. We do not wish to be approached in any manor and any approach will be considered an aggressive act and or posturing. The girls will be in <> first until Tuesday , then <>." ~fuckard who doesn't know MANOR from MANNER
Seriously? Two overweight adults, one with road rage who roughs up pets in front of kids the other a dramatic lunatic who as a visitor got kicked out of a hospital - are "afraid" of me? I'm half their size and me against two people? one who I was granted a RO on? Seriously. I think he's lost his mind. I've not even emailed him prior to this, and even when I do it's very businesslike and unemotional. Just stunned and puzzled.
Should I bother defending or crickets? Would a judge or any other person in authority believe them if I did not defend myself by email against that 100% lying crap email?
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.” ― Pema Chödrön
Sorry, I couldn't help myself. But, yeah. Give 'em crickets and enjoy the fact that they're apparently scared of you! I love it! Send me some of that scary mojo, would you?
I vote crickets.
DIVORCED!!
So now you have it in writing that you're not supposed to approach them while in ANY large house. Cool.
Idiots. Ignore, no judge would fall for that without any evidence of your "harassment" of them, especially with YOUR RO!
"But you said your vows, and you closed the door On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC
"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"
I take this as a warning to stay away. Why put this in writing if he didn't want it read by authorities. And Why does he feel the need to do this?
If this were my X and NW writing this... I would not answer, but I also would not approach. NW used to bring her gun to kid pickup. She told the kids I threatened her. Alluding to the fact that she MIGHT need to defend herself against me.
Be safe and don't approach them... if you do they can say they warned you and you didn't listen. If you are in my state they can shoot you and ask questions later.... if your alive.
Hugs,
K
[This message edited by Kajem at 9:31 PM, May 29th (Wednesday)]
"Considering the fact that I have an RO in place against you for <legalreasonitwasgranted>, your concern about me approaching you is unnecessary and unwarranted."
I know that *crickets* is well-advised, but I believe that in certain circumstances...you need to respond if only to cover your ass. His message to you and the circumstances of your situation just smell too much like a 'set-up' of some type.
We do not wish to be approached in any manor ***So now you have it in writing that you're not supposed to approach them while in ANY large house. Cool***
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
Stay away from large homes with servants and you should be ok.
You would be covered. Also, if possible have someone with you for the pickups and dropoffs for a while. The whole thing smells fishy.
Although etiquette is always important, Ms. Post reminds you to always, always mind your manners while in manors.
