"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"
Thanks Catwoman...I agree. My IC and I talk about this a lot and I told her I have a HUGE problem with caring WAY too much about what insignificant people think about me. I put too much emphasis on what others think of me period...but its worse when I do it with complete strangers! This situation was no different. I didn't care what this man thought of me before I knew he existed...and now that I think about it....I don't now!
Definitely going to set the bar higher for myself and not take things so personally. That's always been one of my weaknesses... being a doormat or too emotional.... and I just need to learn not to take things personally. Its not me...its them! NEXT!
ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12