So I thought I would share a possitive story that made my FWW and I feel pretty good...
First off we have been working really hard on ourselves and our mariage. We have been really trying to understand each other better. In the past few weeks we have really been able to connect on a much deeper level. Our goals are the same to connect mind body and soul.. to live as one. Pretty crazy stuff but we have connected on a deeper level than we ever have. Our intimacy is FINALLY developing and becoming stronger and deeper. We both have been working on breaking down our walls. Its been pretty awesome!!!
Yesterday a friend of ours was having marital issues, asked us for advice on how we were able to make such huge changes in our marriage (They have known us PreA, During and Post) He said we seem so much happier and connected and wished he had that in his marriage. Not going to lie.. it was nice to hear. I gave my advice but also stated we are no where close to where we both envision our marriage in the future and we both work on ourselves every single day. I was glad I was able to share some of the lessons and values I have learned. My wife and I felt pretty good. This is the second couple in 1 weeks that has asked us for advice.
Honestly I can't wait for 5, 10 & 20 years from now. I can only hope we continue to grow and understand each other. It will be an amazing life. There are parts of me that are glad we are going through this. So many valuable lessons that we both have learned. Don't get me wrong parts I can totally do without but there has been some amazing thing that have grown from the ashes