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Crescita (original poster member #32616) posted at 9:06 PM on Thursday, May 30th, 2013
I probably just need to get over myself, but when a certain person is around it changes the dynamic of the group and I feel left out. Anyone else ever get that vibe? Just about friends, not dating related.
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Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 12:38 AM on Friday, May 31st, 2013
Like the person doesn't like you? Or you don't like them? Or they are an attention whore? Or they fill the same "role" in the group that you usually fill and you feel unnecessary?
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Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 12:49 AM on Friday, May 31st, 2013
Ugh; pretty much everyone 
I'm great one on one or in a small group, but I'm so introverted, I can't handle large groups--even if I love everyone in the group. 
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S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 11:38 PM on Friday, May 31st, 2013
Socially awkward checking in ! Totally get it.
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better4me ( member #30341) posted at 5:04 AM on Saturday, June 1st, 2013
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
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