Topic: Weird friendship dynamic
Member # 32616
| Posted: 3:06 PM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013|
I probably just need to get over myself, but when a certain person is around it changes the dynamic of the group and I feel left out. Anyone else ever get that vibe? Just about friends, not dating related.
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Posts: 3571 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
Member # 32810
| Posted: 6:38 PM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013|
Like the person doesn't like you? Or you don't like them? Or they are an attention whore? Or they fill the same "role" in the group that you usually fill and you feel unnecessary?
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Posts: 13930 | Registered: Jul 2011
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Member # 24239
| Posted: 6:49 PM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013|
Ugh; pretty much everyone I'm great one on one or in a small group, but I'm so introverted, I can't handle large groups--even if I love everyone in the group.
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Posts: 20550 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
Member # 22870
| Posted: 5:38 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013|
Socially awkward checking in ! Totally get it.
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Posts: 7862 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Member # 30341
| Posted: 11:04 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013|
Yep, I get it too...
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Posts: 3266 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
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