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Topic: Weird friendship dynamic

Crescita
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Posted: 3:06 PM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013

I probably just need to get over myself, but when a certain person is around it changes the dynamic of the group and I feel left out. Anyone else ever get that vibe? Just about friends, not dating related.

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Amazonia
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Posted: 6:38 PM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013

Like the person doesn't like you? Or you don't like them? Or they are an attention whore? Or they fill the same "role" in the group that you usually fill and you feel unnecessary?

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Sad in AZ
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Posted: 6:49 PM, May 30th (Thursday), 2013

Ugh; pretty much everyone

I'm great one on one or in a small group, but I'm so introverted, I can't handle large groups--even if I love everyone in the group.

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Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
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S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

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Williesmom
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Posted: 5:38 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013

Socially awkward checking in ! Totally get it.

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better4me
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Posted: 11:04 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013

Yep, I get it too...

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