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Yakamishi posted 5/30/2013 21:45 PM

I hate my mood swings. One morning I feel so in love, like I'm on the edge of forgiving her. Tonight I'm in the dumps again. For virtually no reason. Is it too much to ask for a little consistency? Feel like I'm losing my mind sometimes. Still....after 8 months.

Lostinthismess posted 5/30/2013 22:17 PM

Ugh. I'm not that far out but yes. All in one day. I can't take it much more. I hate being a ticking time bomb. Even I don't know when I will go off!

TXwifemom posted 5/30/2013 22:23 PM

We have almost the same D day.

I'm in the same exact place. Pissed as hell, moody, crying, bitchy, mean.
Then loving, nice, supportive.

This sucks.

UKlady posted 5/31/2013 05:30 AM

I'm with you all on this too and I hate it as I've never been a moody person. However, I think I'm learning to grasp onto the good times and I'm hoping - and I've read as much - that eventually the good times do outweigh the bad.

My and my WH have had a few really, really bad days - I even told him I wish I'd never met him to which I thought he was going to have a heart attack it hurt him so badly - but then yesterday he was asking me about something completely non A related and I could see the torment in his eyes and unsureness(?) about asking and I had to laugh and tell him it was ok, I understood that he must feel he's walking on eggshells with me!

It's probably good - and I'm not in any position to be an expert (DDay 3rd Jan 2013) - to try to remember the good bits? Hang on to them in the darkest times.

I just now need to read my own advice and try to act on it!!

westerly posted 6/3/2013 20:42 PM

ugh, amen. 2 months out, myself. First time it happened, mood swings lasted about 9-10 months. Hope you're at the tail end!