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User Topic: Hello 41
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Member # 24534
Default  Posted: 9:06 AM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yup today I am 41. :)

Today I own my own home.
Today I have a 12 year old son who is doing well in school and sports
Today I am getting ready to run my 2nd 5k of the year
Today I am best friends with my sister and have a mom I talk to every day
Today I have a boyfriend who puts me first, cleans my kitchen when I am not home because he had the day off, who buys me lunch and runs it into work when I say I am tired
Today I realized I can't remember the OW's name, I no longer think about the Ex all the time
Today I like who I am :0

Hello 41, you are not so scary. I will toast you with a marguerita tonight on my deck that I built with my own money. 41 is good

[This message edited by ninebark at 9:06 AM, May 31st (Friday)]

BS (me) 40
WH - 48
Married 12 years
DS - 12
D-day 06/21/09
Separated....hopefully divorcing soon.

Posts: 630 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Canada
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Member # 5929
Default  Posted: 9:21 AM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So right around the time I turned 30 I was at the gym with a bunch of girlfriends who all were right around my age. We liked to go to yoga class and then brunch after on Sundays. We were talking about how turning 30 was not as bad as we thought it would be, in fact it was awesome and how we welcomed getting older because some of us liked the idea of being wiser and if 30 was this great then 40 must be a pinnacle of wisdom and centeredness. At this point a woman who was much older than 40 made sure we knew that at 40 we still would not have life all figured out, but when she got to that age she'd let us know.

12/18/15 found out my now EX boyfriend was trolling CL for underage girls. From the cops. The fun never stops.

Posts: 49560 | Registered: Nov 2004 | From: Minneapolis
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Member # 36784
Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Birthday Ninebark!!!

Sounds like things are going great... Awesome!!
Sending out a toast for you!

Divorced Jan 2013

"Don't look back, the road is long."
- Needtobreathe

Posts: 210 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: IL
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Member # 19595
Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Bithday Ninebark !
Enjoy your day and blessings.


It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20489 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
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Member # 24261
Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow ninebark - you rock.

Happy birthday

DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.

Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!

Posts: 5139 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Scotland
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Member # 36599
Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy birthday!

Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)

I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken

There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.

Posts: 468 | Registered: Aug 2012
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Member # 23087
Default  Posted: 11:12 PM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! You're young and have lots of life ahead!

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor is just an idiot in tin foil."

Posts: 1075 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Middle USA
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