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Ashland13 (original poster member #38378) posted at 2:01 AM on Saturday, June 1st, 2013
The blameshifting has become something of an artform and for some reason still surprises me.
It also makes me sad, because not even children are immune to being blamed for an adult"s actions, are they?
Perv is now not only blaming DD on things that I don't agree with him doing, he's also blaming his own lawyer!
It's a sense of "he made me!". and "it was what she wanted."
I replied simply as I could and reminded him that she is 10 and shouldn't get to dictate and neither should he!
What kind of person can allow themselves to do that to a kid? And it's repeated.
The only tiny bit of comfort is that at long last, it's not only me getting blamed for his actions and words, but it took 20 years.
Ashland 13
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
-George Washington
roughroadahead ( member #36060) posted at 2:07 AM on Saturday, June 1st, 2013
Hahaha...
I laugh because waffle is the same. I posted that he filed recently, and now is "offering" to withdraw that complaint prior to my counterclaim.
Yeah, so his lawyer told him to file....
BS-Me 30s
WS-Him 30s
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013. D settled 11/2013
MOW-coworker, 40s.
2 DS and DD all w/autism
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 2:18 PM on Saturday, June 1st, 2013
They are perpetual victims of their own life.
What a shitty-ass existence, huh?
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Pass ( member #38122) posted at 3:51 AM on Sunday, June 2nd, 2013
Ashland, I bet it will be a HUGE relief for Ash-hole when he finally doesn't have y'all screwing things up for him.
Poor guy.
Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 4:01 AM on Sunday, June 2nd, 2013
Poor, poor perpetual victims. Even victims of their own children's machinations. Even the lawyer they pay to protect them from mean evil wivsies victimize them. Poor beleaguered men. Poor menzies.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
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