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User Topic: First year in the books.
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Default  Posted: 11:33 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Last year around this time I was invited to go play paintball with my brother and his friends. I was so down the whole that I couldn't even feel as this would make me feel any better. I was wrong. That day was one of the most memorable days in my life. The feeling of pain was gone. Only feeling the raw primal instincts of man. That day made me forget about everything that has happened.

Well tomorrow is the anniversary of the event. I am looking forward to it I cannot sleep. So many things has changed in one year that I can not describe it right now. I can only say that I am 5x better now then I was in that overbearing marriage. So many new things in my life that I didn't know existed within me. For that I thank her. She has taught me a valuable lesson in my life, and for that I thank her. Only when I have reached the bottom, I can see how far I have to climb to get to the top.

I would like to personally thank all you SI'ers. Without you here, I don't think I would this awesome of a person right now. Never did you guys give up on me and others similar to me. Thank you and I shall shoot somebody in the name of!!!!!

Posts: 342 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: St.Paul Minnesota
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Default  Posted: 12:06 AM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Way to go MBD!!! Congrats to you, take someone out in the name of SI!!!, (made me laugh). I am taking a beginning archery class next week. It's my first meetup group. Can't what to look back a year and have the skills of a warrior. Haha.

Me: BS
DD1 1/11 fb chats
DD 4/11 txt msgs
DD 5/11 hidden accounts for underground EA. Busted it wide open.
DD2 8/2012, new OW

Posts: 133 | Registered: Aug 2011
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Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage



The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...

James Taylor

Posts: 6054 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: A better place
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Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Right back at you MBD! You've always been striving for positiveness & moving forward in a healthy way, always offering encouragement & hugs. You've helped us too!

Posts: 3446 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
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Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you my brother. Feels good don't it ? And it only gets better my man. Life is too short wasting it on a person who does not appreciate who and what you are. Thanks for the update MBD, it gave me a smile today.

You cant eat soup with chopsticks.

Posts: 6851 | Registered: Nov 2007
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Default  Posted: 8:34 PM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great post MBD Can't wait to hear how it went!!!

Me: BW-46
Him: XWH-46

Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.

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Default  Posted: 12:01 AM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had a blast on Saturday. I got a few scars but they will heal. Got one on my hand and one strait between my chest. It was one hell of a day. 25 or so people showed interest but only 3 other people showed up so we had to join open games. I met a lot of new players and pro players too. Highlight of the day was me going across the valley of death and getting two people out before I rambo'ed my way to death. LOL.

After all that I went home and crashed. It was one hell of a workout. 8 hours of fun and games.

Posts: 342 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: St.Paul Minnesota
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