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Divorce/Separation :
feeling lost and alone tonight

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 LadyQ (original poster member #32847) posted at 12:49 AM on Sunday, June 2nd, 2013

No further text

Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...

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shiloe ( member #1224) posted at 12:55 AM on Sunday, June 2nd, 2013

Me too.

But remember, good love is hard to find . . -Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
BS - 58 Dday 03/2011
Cheater -58 Married 26 yrs
DD - 23 DD -21 DS-19
A#1 2000 with married ho-worker/neighbor ow#1
A#2 2007-? OW#2 LTA- new MCOW D-2/17

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kernel ( member #27035) posted at 2:01 AM on Sunday, June 2nd, 2013

Well, you're not alone anyway. Lots of us out here on the boards. Maybe hang out in F & G for a laugh or two.

"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 2:27 AM on Sunday, June 2nd, 2013

(((Lady)))

(((shiloe)))

Lean on us.

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 LadyQ (original poster member #32847) posted at 2:28 AM on Sunday, June 2nd, 2013

Shiloe, tell me what's goin' on in your world...

Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...

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Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 3:50 AM on Sunday, June 2nd, 2013

You're not fully alone here.

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

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Meadhbh ( member #23087) posted at 5:09 AM on Sunday, June 2nd, 2013

It does get better! Stay strong.

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor is just an idiot in tin foil."

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Housefulloflove ( member #38458) posted at 5:19 AM on Sunday, June 2nd, 2013

Hugs LadyQ!

Strangely enough I came here just now because this is exactly what I'm feeling right now.

Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013

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MissD ( member #39377) posted at 5:24 AM on Sunday, June 2nd, 2013

I live that SI is a place that is safe for us when feelings of sadness and loneliness overwhelm.

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TrustGone ( member #36654) posted at 5:44 AM on Sunday, June 2nd, 2013

Me too. Even when WH#2 is lying beside me snoring I still feel so lost and alone now. It seems it doesn't really matter who is lying beside him as long as someone is. He's not really that picky anymore.

XWH#2-No longer my monkey Divorced 8/15, Now married to a wonderful man.
"A person is either an asset or a lesson"
"Changing who you are with does not change who you are"

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getting_stronger ( member #32858) posted at 6:30 AM on Sunday, June 2nd, 2013

I'm sorry- I'm right there with you.

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