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Topic: lmfao ... I text the wrong person

booger bear
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Posted: 8:35 PM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013

This afternoon.

Sent a text to my dad I thought that I would be home in a minute I was just leaving.

The answer I got was from Xh ... Ok that's fine but it is a long drive for you.

I just answered with sorry wrong person. Not a word from him sense ... I can feel him wondering, the curiosity from 600+ miles away is sooooooooo SWEET ... In no way did I lead on who I was really texting ...

I know lame ... But it has been the highlight of my weekend, hell the last 6 months ...

Off to the porch to keep drinking ....

I am fiercely independent and I won’t apologize for it. I'd rather be single than settled.

Posts: 18858 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: OK

Williesmom
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Posted: 8:39 PM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013

Funny, but delete that asshole from your phone.

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 9092 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA

gma56
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Posted: 8:50 PM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013

I still have FT in my phone so I know it's him if he ever calls. No I won't answer but I want no surprises on my VM either.
I have him listed as XHFT so no way will I ever send a text by mistake. Do something similar BB, it works well and you never see his name or # because it's under the X.

BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20487 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..

devistatedmom
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Posted: 9:03 PM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013

A few weeks ago I told my son (17) to grab my phone and text his dad about something. XH and I do use text a lot to communicate since son has many sporting events which can change place/times for pick ups.

Son starts searching my contact list from the top. I ask him, why don't you just enter the first letter of his name? He said, "I figured he might be under the A's." I said why? His name doesn't start with A. He says, "Yeah, but I figured you might have him listed under Asshole."

I love my son.

BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.

Posts: 5919 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada

gma56
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Posted: 9:24 PM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013

Yeah, but I figured you might have him listed under Asshole."
I love my son.

Gotta love it, they KNOW !
BB, ya gotta list him under the correct name !

I do love the fact, XH doesn't have a clue who the text was suppose to got to.

[This message edited by gma56 at 9:25 PM, June 1st (Saturday)]

BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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GabyBaby
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Posted: 9:31 PM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013

"Yeah, but I figured you might have him listed under Asshole."
I love my son.

Me - 44
DD(23), DS(21, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.

Posts: 9855 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Here and There

booger bear
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Posted: 9:56 PM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013

there are so many *correct* names to list him under. I'm not even sure where I would begin to choose one.

On my phone ... Sprint Evo ... when you click the text icon it takes you to a screen of all the contacts you have text and then you can choose their thread and send them a text, or you can go thru the contact list to ... My dad's thread and Xh's thread happened to be right next to eachother. Xh sent me a text about 10 days ago last time my dinosaur dad even turned his phone on to send me a text to.

Oopps I hit the wrong thread and never checked the name before or after I sent ...

no fishing texts from him, boy I will have fun if he does fish. But my 6th sense is still in overdrive ...

I am fiercely independent and I won’t apologize for it. I'd rather be single than settled.

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thebighurt
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Posted: 9:21 AM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013

@ devastatedmom. Gotta love that boy!

Bb, I bet you have him curious!

I have xpos listed under his proper name, 'xpos', in my phone. He was right next to DD and I almost sent messages to the wrong ones when we were together, so I wanted to assure that wouldn't happen now.

I have a new # he doesn't know and I have no reason to contact him, so I moved him off by himself. The only reason he is still in my phone is to preserve his threatening and harassing texts because he still, after D for more than a year, does stuff to me! I might need them as evidence. But he's SOOO happy!! NOT!!

Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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inconnu
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Posted: 9:54 AM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013

bb, that's great, especially since you weren't trying to do anything intentionally. it really was the perfect thing to text to an ex accidentally.

"Yeah, but I figured you might have him listed under Asshole."
I love my son.

dm, I love your son too.

Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing we'll ever do. ~ Brené Brown

Posts: 12919 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartof, Texas

booger bear
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Posted: 11:34 AM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013

OK so I just looked at my contact list ... guess what letter is missing a contact ...

"F" ......

Immediately thought of fucktard, but that honor has been wrapped up so well by gma's X (ohhhhhhh I said X, sounds good gma) that I just don't think Xh deserves that honor.

Soooooo ..... Let's get creative ..... Let's name my Xh for my contact list ....

eta ... Just realized I left 2 whole words .... jeez

[This message edited by booger bear at 12:13 PM, June 2nd (Sunday)]

I am fiercely independent and I won’t apologize for it. I'd rather be single than settled.

Posts: 18858 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: OK

hexed
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Posted: 5:04 PM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013

I like the whole thing. :)

But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler

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UndecidedinMA
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Posted: 9:39 AM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013

He says, "Yeah, but I figured you might have him listed under Asshole."

OMG that is just too good!!!!

She is listed in my ph as C@@T, her BFF as CA Skank

ME - BSO
Him - FWSO
OW - DBC Xwife
DDAY 09/14/11 ONS w/DBCxWOW with 4 mos EA
Solidly in R

Posts: 1005 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: MA

Mousse242
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Posted: 8:18 AM, June 4th (Tuesday), 2013

Too bad you didn't add an "I love you" at the end of that text. THAT would have really got him going!

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