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lostinlv (original poster member #31663) posted at 3:18 AM on Sunday, June 2nd, 2013
FINAL!!! I decided to check online to see the status of the D and was surprised to see a final decree issued on May 28th! They told me it would be anywhere from June 3rd to the 10th... it took EIGHT days from the time we finally filed for it to be final. Wow!
I am having lots of mixed emotions. The main one is RELIEF. I am also very happy. One emotion I didn't expect, but have to acknowledge is there, is sadness. Don't get me wrong - I am NOT sad that I divorced douchebag, but I guess I'm just sad about losing what "should have been". Does that make sense??
Anyway... I am going to go crack open that bottle of wine I have in the fridge. 
WOOT!!
me, BS-43
him,FWH-42
4 kids (22,20,16,12)
DDay#1 2/?/97 (A with COW in 1995- turns out it never really ended and they are now living together)
DDay#2 4/18/10 -LTA approx 12mos
DIVORCED!!
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 3:46 AM on Sunday, June 2nd, 2013
Here's to a good new beginning! <clink!>
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 4:12 AM on Sunday, June 2nd, 2013
Cheers to your new freedom !
Gma
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
Meadhbh ( member #23087) posted at 5:07 AM on Sunday, June 2nd, 2013
"Sometimes your knight in shining armor is just an idiot in tin foil."
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 2:32 PM on Sunday, June 2nd, 2013
Happy New Beginning to you!
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 4:56 PM on Sunday, June 2nd, 2013
Sadness mixed with relief is definitely the standard emotion around here.
Followed by congratulations!
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
scotslass ( member #39204) posted at 8:36 PM on Sunday, June 2nd, 2013
I know it's bittersweet - but congratulations.
Me. - moving on and upward !!!
CallMeRed1 ( member #36870) posted at 9:39 PM on Sunday, June 2nd, 2013
Congratulations!
Understand the hint of sadness, but believe me happier times lie ahead.
D-Day mid 2012
I was the BS
Status: Divorced early 2013
devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 12:44 AM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013
Congratulations on having it over with! Hope you enjoyed that wine. :)
BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 2:36 AM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013
Congrats-- bittersweet, it's true, but I hope to be joining you in the final stage soon!
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:49 AM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013
I'm just sad about losing what "should have been". Does that make sense??
It makes a lot of sense. Congratulations on being final. And best of luck on your new beginning!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
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