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velveteer posted 6/2/2013 16:35 PM

feeling shitty right now. things with SO are a bit shaky and I'm not so sure of myself anymore. I'm missing my kids - had a great weekend with them running in and out of the house with their friends. now they are back with WXW and I'm down. Haven't been feeling like this for a long while.
Lot going on - finalising the transfer of money to WXW as per agreement, and under pressure at work. Also came off the ADs although I have been tapering it off for months now. Me and SO are not doing great and doubts are creeping in now for me anyway. I miss my friends and don't see enough of them as life is just so hectic. Feel a bit disconnected.

Fuck.

jo2love posted 6/2/2013 18:39 PM

(((Velveteer)))

You have a lot of going on in your life right now. I can understand feeling disconnected. How about inviting your friends over for pizza?

Sending you strength.

[This message edited by jo2love at 6:40 PM, June 2nd (Sunday)]

Luvlyla posted 6/2/2013 19:38 PM

((((velveteer))))

I find a few nights of good sleep then force yourself to get in touch with friends and organise them coming round.

Tomorrow is another day, and you'll be that bit stronger to handle it.

Hope24 posted 6/3/2013 05:33 AM

Sorry to hear you're having a rough go, V.

Definitely reach out to your friends. You need a strong support system.

Sounds like you also need some clarity around your relationship. Is there someone you can talk to IRL? It seems like things have been rocky for a while.

(((V)))

NaiveAgain posted 6/3/2013 06:41 AM

(((velveteer)))