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inlove67 posted 6/2/2013 21:50 PM

It has been a while since I've posted here. After almost 2 months I have made up my mind...It's over. It's been almost 2 months since my boyfriend told me he cheated.. Even though we were not married my love for him was strong enough that I considered giving him another chance.

Needless to say, our relationship had many problems prior to the cheating. My opinion on cheating before this happened to me was always "Get out now" but i realized that it's not that easy to say until you are in the situation. Another thing I realized is that he will not change. If what he did to me didn't make him want to be better...he never will. I am tired of being hurt and I have decided to move on.

He still calls and texts, its been almost a week since I decided I don't want him to be a part of my life and I hate that I still want to be with him but no matter what, I've decided not to pick up the phone and to move on to someone that will appreciate me.

Out of this post I am looking for support but I'm also hoping to provide encouragement to those who are leaving..it's possible...and even though it may hurt, you can get through it no matter what. I've had one hell of a year and I'm happy to say after hitting my bottom...I'm picking myself back up.

Jospehine85 posted 6/2/2013 22:15 PM

(((inlove67)))

Skan posted 6/2/2013 23:12 PM

Good for you! I'm glad that you decided to love yourself more than someone that would hurt you so horribly, and then do nothing to change himself into a decent person. Stay strong!

stratus722 posted 6/2/2013 23:19 PM

Good luck and stay strong. True words and yes you deserve someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.

Jrazz posted 6/2/2013 23:20 PM

Sending you support and hugs.

Ladyogilvy posted 6/2/2013 23:27 PM

Throwing a party here in celebration of your finding your way to freedom.

nolight posted 6/3/2013 02:34 AM

Good for you inlove, I hope your decision brings you some much deserved peace. Keep up with the NC it really helps, have you looked on Baggage Reclaim? It's very empowering.

dead_inside posted 6/3/2013 02:42 AM

I was married for ten years, left, and now happier than ever! I learned to love being on my own for four years, then met an amazing man and planning to marrying 2014. You are doing the right thing!

Bluebird26 posted 6/3/2013 02:50 AM

Good for you! Keep being strong and NC will help you heal.

movingforward13 posted 6/3/2013 09:54 AM

Good for you!

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