Not sure how much info to put for my back story,ill keep it as short as I can.
WS had EA with co-worker. He ended it after I made he choose on d-day, and his been remorseful and I cant fault his actions since.
This co-worker/OW was in a relationship at the time of the EA.
I found out through a friend of a friend ( funny enough didn't realise the info she was giving me)she was pregnant 3mths after d-day.
Of course I confronted WS who was adamant it was "only" an EA, apart from 2 kisses.
Feel I need to add here that OW since d-day has made no contact with either me or WH. I do know she announced her pregnancy, split with her fiancée before starting a new relation with another co-worker.
So I carried on but then certain things started to not add up.
I have no idea how far she gone OW is and the little info I get of this friend of a friend (to clear up she pregnant also and knows of her-to long to go into) makes me think it could be my WS baby.
My WH told me she fell pregnant after d-day but this friend of a friend makes comments that puts doubt in my mind.
An Example of this is....She was telling me about a lady she knows was making her a blue baby blanket and also making OW one,as they are both having boys.
Well I worked out OW was about, with what WS told me, 11weeks gone at the time so how would she know the gender of the baby? Is it possible?
I also worked out if she conceived around the time WS and her was "seeing one another" (
)then she would be around 20wks at he time I was told this.Oh and would know the gender of the baby.
I think I'm too far gone from d-day to confront her, and cant ask to many questions with this friend of a friend with out to much suspicion.
I made a choose to only tell 4 close friends and I want it to stay that way.
So I feel I'm left waiting to see when OW gives birth, which is frustrating and unbearable, before I can "do" anything
What to do??!! Just wait??!