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User Topic: Strange sense of relief
♀ 37583
Member # 37583
Default  Posted: 8:05 AM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am feeling a very strange sense of relief this morning now that I finally know everything that I've wanted to know for sure for so that I actually have his phone in my possession instead of it always being the big mystery in the room...I've had my world turned upside down, and I'm a peace for the first time in months...weird

Me: 30, BS
Him: 30, WH
Married: 1 year, together for 7 years
1st child due in Sept 2013
DDay: 09/02/12, 09/22/12 admitted to EA ,false R, then 06/02/13 found out about PA & EA with same woman (OW is a coworker)
Hoping for R

Posts: 72 | Registered: Nov 2012
♀ 36654
Member # 36654
Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am glad you are feeling better today, but don't get too used to it. Unfortunately more bad days are still waiting. They don't call it a roller coaster for nothing. Enjoy the good days when you can.

M-10 yrs T-12 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
DD#4-11/28/14 He ran off to be with OW after assaulting me

Posts: 2496 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
♂ 34145
Member # 34145
Default  Posted: 8:25 AM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think this is normal. BSs crave the truth. No matter how agonising the truth is, knowing it is better than not knowing it.

BS ( me) 41
fWS (OktoberMest) 35
D day #1 29/10/2011, D day #2 15/112011, D day #3 15/03/2012
“It’s better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all”, is inadequate consolation when you vacuum up a child's hamster'

Posts: 1290 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: UK
Topic Posts: 3

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