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sunshine226 (original poster member #38851) posted at 6:59 PM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013
I hung onto hope as long as i could but I have been the only one fighting to save our relationship, hanging on, waiting, but I AM DONE
17 months is long enough to wait for someone to come back, saying all the right things but doing absolutely NOTHING to prove any of it
So I am done being the only one fighting for US, I give up, WH is the one that has thrown 24 years away, tossed it all for what????? Abandoned his family, home, his life
Cant say I didnt give it my best shot but I guess it wasnt enough, money IS the root of all evil, hope her promises of money and financial gain makes them happy
DONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Me-BS (44)
Him-WS (47)
DDay 1/1/2012, common law for 22 1/2 years when he began A in September 2011
Status: moving on without him
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 7:36 PM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013
I am glad you have come to a resolution.
Now what will you do next?
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
sunshine226 (original poster member #38851) posted at 3:31 PM on Tuesday, June 4th, 2013
give him what he and OW deserves, NOTHING
They can replace everything he is going to lose, material possessions but he cant replace his kids, family and friends
He's lost them because of his actions!
Time to make it official, done waiting for him to do the right thing
Me-BS (44)
Him-WS (47)
DDay 1/1/2012, common law for 22 1/2 years when he began A in September 2011
Status: moving on without him
Pippy ( member #16482) posted at 6:48 PM on Tuesday, June 4th, 2013
Yes, you deserve better. Time to be good to yourself.
I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
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