Cookies are required for login or registration. Please read and agree to our cookie policy to continue.

Newest Member: BestialTendencies

Divorce/Separation :
I give up.....

This Topic is Archived
default

 sunshine226 (original poster member #38851) posted at 6:59 PM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013

I hung onto hope as long as i could but I have been the only one fighting to save our relationship, hanging on, waiting, but I AM DONE

17 months is long enough to wait for someone to come back, saying all the right things but doing absolutely NOTHING to prove any of it

So I am done being the only one fighting for US, I give up, WH is the one that has thrown 24 years away, tossed it all for what????? Abandoned his family, home, his life

Cant say I didnt give it my best shot but I guess it wasnt enough, money IS the root of all evil, hope her promises of money and financial gain makes them happy

DONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Me-BS (44)
Him-WS (47)
DDay 1/1/2012, common law for 22 1/2 years when he began A in September 2011
Status: moving on without him

posts: 234   ·   registered: Mar. 31st, 2013
id 6359866
default

Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 7:36 PM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013

I am glad you have come to a resolution.

Now what will you do next?

Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie

posts: 6709   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2010
id 6359898
default

 sunshine226 (original poster member #38851) posted at 3:31 PM on Tuesday, June 4th, 2013

give him what he and OW deserves, NOTHING

They can replace everything he is going to lose, material possessions but he cant replace his kids, family and friends

He's lost them because of his actions!

Time to make it official, done waiting for him to do the right thing

Me-BS (44)
Him-WS (47)
DDay 1/1/2012, common law for 22 1/2 years when he began A in September 2011
Status: moving on without him

posts: 234   ·   registered: Mar. 31st, 2013
id 6360895
default

Pippy ( member #16482) posted at 6:48 PM on Tuesday, June 4th, 2013

Yes, you deserve better. Time to be good to yourself.

I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.


posts: 9588   ·   registered: Oct. 4th, 2007   ·   location: East of the Rockies
id 6361237
This Topic is Archived
Cookies on SurvivingInfidelity.com®

SurvivingInfidelity.com® uses cookies to enhance your visit to our website. This is a requirement for participants to login, post and use other features. Visitors may opt out, but the website will be less functional for you.

v.1.001.20250404a 2002-2025 SurvivingInfidelity.com® All Rights Reserved. • Privacy Policy