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Divorce/Separation :
Final D hearing this Thurs am (6/6). Why am I so nervous?

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 PanicAttack53 (original poster member #34195) posted at 7:22 PM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013

My final D hearing is this Thursday at 9am. I'm as prepared as I can be and the magistrate has already stated that we will *not* walk that day without a deal being done. Since we don't have two nickles to rub together between us, the only issue is how much support I'll have to pay her every month (loooong story so don't ask).

So why the hell am I so nervous about this?

Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 59 on D-day (11/17/11) | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have.” ― Eckhart Tolle

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devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 8:49 PM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013

You are nervous because even if you want it done, are ready for it, know exactly what should happen....it's still the end. No matter how long you have been waiting, it's still a smack that everything has come to this.

Hugs, and good luck

BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.

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