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User Topic: Grateful to be here...or anywhere tonight.
cryingdaily
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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just feel the need to declare that I am happy to be alive.

On Saturday, NOguy and I spent the day out on his bike (a Harley).

We had a great day and were about two miles from my house when a young kid ran a stop sign and hit us.

Never. So. Scared. In. My. LIFE!

It's amazing. A series of events that happened within seconds, I remember as snapshots that seemed to take several minutes.

I watched the car come toward us and thought he was going to hit where my leg was. I didn't feel panic, I felt resigned to the fact that this was going to hurt so I turned my head, held my breath and just braced myself.

He hit us just behind my leg, mid saddlebag (hard saddle bags)

When he hit us, I felt the back of the bike jump over and could tell from the wobbling that NOguy did not have control of the bike.

Again, I was resigned to the fact that a whole lot of bad was about to happen, but by the grace of God, he gained control and we didn't fall over.

Just as the realization hit that we might actually be ok, I saw we were headed straight toward the back of a parked car.

NOguy hit the brake and we came to a tire-screeching halt.

I don't remember getting off the bike but I must have jumped off like it was on fire. He didn't even feel me get off. He looked back and I was standing on the sidewalk.

There was so much that could have gone horribly wrong. The car could have crushed my leg...the bike could have landed on top of us....we could have been thrown into the road....we could have hit the back of that car....and NONE of that happened.

The bike has some damage but, that's what insurance is for. We are alive and completely unharmed.

Thank you to God and the guardian angels he sent to keep that bike on two wheels.


Me: BS 48
Him: Doesn't matter any more.
The Royal Court, formerly known as the Princess Posse:
DD31 - Belle
DD23 - Xena
GD10 - Jasmine
GD8 - Ariel
GD Born 9/4/12 - Tink
GS Born 6/23/2014 - Little Prince

Posts: 14400 | Registered: Jun 2005 | From: Massachusetts
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG...that had to be terrifying. So glad you are both okay!


Sometimes the strongest people hide the deepest pain.

Posts: 13832 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
Sad in AZ
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Member # 24239
Default  Posted: 9:07 PM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Whoa! We're happy you're here too!


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20414 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 9:14 PM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad to hear you made it through that in one piece. Scary shit!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17684 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 9:16 PM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG! I'm so glad no one was hurt! That must have been terrifying!


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:33 PM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so glad you are ok.

Posts: 36377 | Registered: Mar 2011
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 9:39 PM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NOguy has some *mad* bike-driving skills.

This could have been so tragic and I'm so glad to hear that there was a happy ending.


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8181 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
cryingdaily
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Default  Posted: 9:44 PM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NOguy has some *mad* bike-driving skills.

Yes, I was impressed.


Me: BS 48
Him: Doesn't matter any more.
The Royal Court, formerly known as the Princess Posse:
DD31 - Belle
DD23 - Xena
GD10 - Jasmine
GD8 - Ariel
GD Born 9/4/12 - Tink
GS Born 6/23/2014 - Little Prince

Posts: 14400 | Registered: Jun 2005 | From: Massachusetts
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 9:45 PM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow... Thank God everything happened like it did.

So glad you and NOguy are alright.

Hugs,

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5521 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Want2help
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Default  Posted: 10:41 PM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So scary! A former co-worker of mine lost her leg in that exact way, so I am so glad you are safe and sound.


BS- me.
FWS- him.
DDay 6/07 (immediately separated)
RDay 8/07
OC born 3/08
OC Adopted 2014

Reconciled


Posts: 2330 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: PNW
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:47 PM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sweet Fancy Moses!!!

I can't even imagine what that experience must have been like for you, cd. And NOguy!!! Big squeezy "thankyouforsavingourcdandyourself" hugs for him, m'kay?


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 26070 | Registered: Aug 2011
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 10:49 PM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, Holy CRAP!!!

(((cd))) I'm so glad you're OK.


Posts: 11791 | Registered: Mar 2008
willow60
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Default  Posted: 12:09 AM, June 4th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So happy tp hear you both are okay.

What a terrifying experience!


Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead....Adele

Posts: 960 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Upstate NY
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 12:56 AM, June 4th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG, CD...

I cannot imagine how scary that must've been. I'm so glad you are ok.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7840 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 8:08 AM, June 4th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So glad both of you are ok!!

Posts: 3423 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 8:19 AM, June 4th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So happy that you both are okay.

Do you wear helmets?


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9947 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
Helen of Troy
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Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, June 4th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank goodness you are ok!


Posts: 4725 | Registered: Dec 2009
Newlease
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Default  Posted: 9:35 AM, June 4th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow - you actually got hit and didn't go down? THAT'S amazing and awesome! So glad it turned out that way.

My SO were driving through St. Louis during rush hour on 64W. An SUV cut us off and we were in the far left lane with nowhere to go. Thanks to SO's awareness and skills, we did not go down. But I cried until we got outside the city.

Riding a motorcycle involves risk - you are very vulnerable. It's good to be made aware of that without terrible consequences.

Sending strength and peace.

NL


Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.

Posts: 7779 | Registered: Aug 2005
Kalleigh
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Default  Posted: 9:47 AM, June 4th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank God you are ok. Motorcycles accidents are not nice at all


I love my husband and kids, but there is something missing, LIKE MAYBE A LIFE!!!!!!!

Posts: 6508 | Registered: Mar 2003 | From: Wisconsin
cryingdaily
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Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, June 4th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do you wear helmets?

Yes, MA and RI have helmet laws although RI only requires the passenger wear a helmet.


Me: BS 48
Him: Doesn't matter any more.
The Royal Court, formerly known as the Princess Posse:
DD31 - Belle
DD23 - Xena
GD10 - Jasmine
GD8 - Ariel
GD Born 9/4/12 - Tink
GS Born 6/23/2014 - Little Prince

Posts: 14400 | Registered: Jun 2005 | From: Massachusetts
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