I think that is a great idea. I'm thinking of a "refresher" also as my PTSD is coming back on me a bit and I don't like it.
I seem to be making a bit healthier choices mate-wise but my new guy still has some issues. They aren't deal-breakers for me though, they are stuff we are working thru. I have issues of my own. Everyone I know has issues. I honestly don't know anyone, male or female, without some issues, quirks, or baggage. Even the teens I hang with at school have their own crop of issues they deal with.
It's funny, but I have tried so hard in the past to make relationships work when they just weren't right.....my 1st H, the psychopath, the bipolar SA, the alcoholic, and a few guys whose issues weren't quite so blaring but maybe had insecurities, strange quirks, etc.....
This one, it is really easy for us to be together. While we do work on the relationship it comes natural and we enjoy the deep talks. I think when it's right, it is right and it shouldn't feel so much like work.
Why do you think you are afraid to enjoy the dating scene? Does it just feel like a job interview or something? Can you go out and just enjoy yourself and have fun?