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Mack9512 posted 6/4/2013 10:08 AM

My fwH sent me a picture via text message. It was a picture of his ring finger with both his old and wedding bands on it. The corresponding text message said, "My first band is your symbol to me. The new band is my re-commitment to you. Also, metaphorically, the new band keeps the old band where it should always be." He went on to say that wearing both bands together felt comfortable and right.

He surprises me every day.

AFrayedKnot posted 6/4/2013 12:13 PM

5454real posted 6/4/2013 12:18 PM

awesome, I love to hear that there are wandering spouses out there who really get it.

authenticnow posted 6/4/2013 12:21 PM

That's very sweet.

jo2love posted 6/4/2013 12:24 PM

Lucky posted 6/4/2013 12:35 PM


Mr Lucky also wears two bands, I love it.

MissD posted 6/4/2013 15:35 PM

Very nice, thanks for sharing.

karmahappens posted 6/4/2013 22:07 PM

That's awesome.

I love the idea!

Hearthache again posted 6/4/2013 22:38 PM

My H is not able to wear his ring at work. He wants to get a ring tattooed on his finger. He keeps telling me this. I am not one that likes tattoos and we have always held the belief of not marking our bodies.

He always told me he would never get someones name on him, because his father has all 3 wives names on him(2 ex wives and his current wife). For H to want to do this is big. He wants everyone to know he is married and that its permanent. I am really close to giving in and letting him do it.

[This message edited by Hearthache again at 10:38 PM, June 4th (Tuesday)]

musiclovingmom posted 6/5/2013 11:14 AM

My H is not supposed to wear his ring at work, but he never takes it off. He puts his gloves over it when he is out of the truck. I thought he took it off. Not sure why, but it made me feel so good that he leaves it on (at least until I remember the safety risk).

agreensleeve posted 6/5/2013 20:33 PM


I will be showing my H this.

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