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Topic: 1500 Days Sober Today
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looking forward
♀ 25238
Member # 25238 |  Posted: 8:39 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013 |     |
I can do this.
I have done this.
I will continue to do this.
DESPITE THE INCREDIBLE ROLLER COASTER OF EMOTIONS THESE LAST FOUR YEARS.
I am strong!
I am looking forward!
Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow.
"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." (Joseph Campbell)
Posts: 2866 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Where a river runs through it |
Lucky2HaveMe
♀ 13333
Member # 13333 | | Posted: 8:43 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Awesome! Congrats. 
Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.
Posts: 6970 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: WNY |
Lalagirl
♀ 14576
Member # 14576 | | Posted: 8:47 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
((((looking forward))))
So proud of you! Congratulations and wishing you a lifetime of sobriety.
As you said - YOU CAN DO THIS!
Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 31 years 9/2/14
2 grown daughters-31 & 27
5yo GS,2yo GD & 5 mo. GD (DD30) and 2.5 yo GD(DD27). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.
Posts: 5219 | Registered: May 2007 |
HFSSC
♀ 33338
Member # 33338 | | Posted: 9:00 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Woo Hoo!!!!!!!!!!
I wish I could keep up with my days. All I know is 3 months from yesterday I'll have 5 years. And I remember a time when 5 days was unfathomable.
Keep it up. It's an amazing life and just keeps getting better.
Me, 48
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 18 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.
Posts: 3005 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina |
metamorphisis
♀ 12041
Member # 12041 | | Posted: 9:00 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Rockstar!!!!!!!! 
“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin
Posts: 46075 | Registered: Sep 2006 |
purplejacket4
♀ 34262
Member # 34262 | | Posted: 9:07 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Congrats!!!
Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish
Posts: 2417 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest |
ThoughtIKnewYa
♀ 18449
Member # 18449 | | Posted: 9:08 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Posts: 11808 | Registered: Mar 2008 |
Betrayal
♀ 9898
Member # 9898 | | Posted: 9:37 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
How awesome, congratulations!!! Thank you for sharing
Me,38 BS
Divorced
Married
DS Born 9/6/10
Posts: 2220 | Registered: Feb 2006 | From: IL |
MissesJai
♀ 24849
Member # 24849 | | Posted: 10:05 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
congratulations!!!!!! So incredibly happy for you!!
FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson
Posts: 6059 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal..... |
SoVerySadNow
♀ 36711
Member # 36711 | | Posted: 10:07 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
This is wonderful! Congratulations!
Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.
Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida |
simplydevastated
♀ 25001
Member # 25001 | | Posted: 10:10 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Congratulations! I'm so proud of you!
Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)
Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell! |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 1:21 PM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Congrats!! That is awesome!
Posts: 37595 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
LonelyHusband
♂ 34145
Member # 34145 | | Posted: 1:28 PM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
yup, that is truly awesome, well done.
Reconciling.
“A wizard is never late. Nor is he ever early. He arrives precisely when he means to".
Apparently not an appropriate reason for coming home drunk at 2AM.
Posts: 1305 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: UK |
InTheRabbitHole
♀ 19319
Member # 19319 | | Posted: 1:59 PM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Great job!
Posts: 202 | Registered: Apr 2008 |
itainteasy
♀ 31094
Member # 31094 | | Posted: 2:13 PM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
What a wonderful achievement! Congratulations!
Posts: 3435 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA |
SisterMilkshake
♀ 30024
Member # 30024 | | Posted: 4:18 PM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
That is wonderful news. Hope you are very proud of yourself, it really is an accomplishment.
BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson
Posts: 10295 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA |
2oldforthis
♀ 19825
Member # 19825 | | Posted: 4:38 PM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Great Job Keep going!
He did not see what he had in me, what I saw in him I did not have!
Love kills slowly.
Posts: 1656 | Registered: Jun 2008 |
sisoon
♂ 31240
Member # 31240 | | Posted: 4:48 PM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Congratulations!
fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 70 (22 in my head), Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.
Posts: 10963 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area |
ExposedNiblet
♀ 30803
Member # 30803 | | Posted: 4:51 PM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Divorced
Me ($39.95 plus S & H)
DS1(17), DS2(15)
Enjoying this chapter in my life.
Learning that being alone does not mean being lonely.
Discovering that where I've been is not as important as where I'm going.
Posts: 355 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Right Here, Canada |
MissD
♀ 39377
Member # 39377 | | Posted: 4:53 PM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
This is a great accomplishment, congratulations!
Posts: 70 | Registered: May 2013 |
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