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 looking forward (original poster member #25238) posted at 2:39 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

I can do this.

I have done this.

I will continue to do this.

DESPITE THE INCREDIBLE ROLLER COASTER OF EMOTIONS THESE LAST FOUR YEARS.

I am strong!

I am looking forward!

Together more than 57 years, Married 52 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)

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Lucky2HaveMe ( member #13333) posted at 2:43 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

Awesome! Congrats.

Love isn't what you say, it's what you do.

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Lalagirl ( member #14576) posted at 2:47 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

((((looking forward))))

So proud of you! Congratulations and wishing you a lifetime of sobriety.

As you said - YOU CAN DO THIS!

2025: Me-59 FWH-61 Married 41 years grown daughters- 41 & 37. 1 GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); Five grands ages 15 to 8. D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant

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HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 3:00 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

Woo Hoo!!!!!!!!!!

I wish I could keep up with my days. All I know is 3 months from yesterday I'll have 5 years. And I remember a time when 5 days was unfathomable.

Keep it up. It's an amazing life and just keeps getting better.

Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.

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metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 3:00 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

Rockstar!!!!!!!!

Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.

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purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 3:07 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

Congrats!!!

Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 3:08 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

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Betrayal ( member #9898) posted at 3:37 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

How awesome, congratulations!!! Thank you for sharing

Me,38 BS
Divorced
Married
DS Born 9/6/10

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MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 4:05 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

congratulations!!!!!! So incredibly happy for you!!

44
Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
#BlackLivesMatter
Don't settle for no fuck shit....

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SoVerySadNow ( member #36711) posted at 4:07 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

This is wonderful! Congratulations!

Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

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simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 4:10 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

Congratulations! I'm so proud of you!

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 7:21 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

Congrats!! That is awesome!

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LonelyHusband ( member #34145) posted at 7:28 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

yup, that is truly awesome, well done.

Reconciling.
“A wizard is never late. Nor is he ever early. He arrives precisely when he means to".
Apparently not an appropriate reason for coming home drunk at 2AM.

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InTheRabbitHole ( member #19319) posted at 7:59 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

Great job!

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itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 8:13 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

What a wonderful achievement! Congratulations!

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SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 10:18 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

That is wonderful news. Hope you are very proud of yourself, it really is an accomplishment.

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

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2oldforthis ( member #19825) posted at 10:38 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

Great Job Keep going!

He did not see what he had in me, what I saw in him I did not have!

Love kills slowly.

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 10:48 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

Congratulations!

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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ExposedNiblet ( member #30803) posted at 10:51 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

Congratulations!

Divorced and happy.

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MissD ( member #39377) posted at 10:53 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

This is a great accomplishment, congratulations!

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