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User Topic: Wish me luck...
WakingFromADream
♂ 33934
Member # 33934
Default  Posted: 10:00 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phone interview today, another tomorrow. Both sound like really good positions and would be great next steps in a career path plus, keep everything the same and the D moving forward w/o any hitches or changes like having to sell the house instead of keeping it to provide stability for DS.

Really important since it looks like I have a high probability of losing my current job at the end of the month. Right now I'm really just waiting for an email from the VP letting me know that my services are no longer required because they don't have work for me to do.


Me(35) XWW(36) DS(7) DD 11/16/11 EA(PA?) M 11y D 9/3/13

Don't make anyone a priority when you are only an option.


Posts: 1148 | Registered: Nov 2011
ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 10:05 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck!!!


xBW~ 35
Two DS~ 7-Eleven
"I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know." ~ asurvivor

Posts: 2724 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
ButterflyGirl
♀ 38377
Member # 38377
Default  Posted: 10:05 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Um, yeah, I meant to double post, cause I really mean it

Good luck!!!

[This message edited by ButterflyGirl at 10:06 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)]


xBW~ 35
Two DS~ 7-Eleven
"I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know." ~ asurvivor

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Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

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tesla
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Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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bbee
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Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo!


This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1


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JustDone
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Default  Posted: 11:16 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.

Nobody forgets what happens, the secret is learning to live with it.


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ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 11:25 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awww, that's beautiful ^^^^

I might ask you for this next Tuesday before my mediation

[This message edited by ButterflyGirl at 11:44 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)]


xBW~ 35
Two DS~ 7-Eleven
"I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know." ~ asurvivor

Posts: 2724 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 11:25 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just really like to repeat myself on this thread for some reason...

[This message edited by ButterflyGirl at 11:26 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)]


xBW~ 35
Two DS~ 7-Eleven
"I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know." ~ asurvivor

Posts: 2724 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
dmari
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Default  Posted: 11:40 AM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

GOOD LUCK on both phone interviews!!


Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

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fallingquickly
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Default  Posted: 11:24 PM, June 5th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck!!!


Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)

I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken

There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.


Posts: 455 | Registered: Aug 2012
WakingFromADream
♂ 33934
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Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone. That helped calm the nerves. I think that they went well. We will see if I get to go to the in person interviews next.


Me(35) XWW(36) DS(7) DD 11/16/11 EA(PA?) M 11y D 9/3/13

Don't make anyone a priority when you are only an option.


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WakingFromADream
♂ 33934
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Cool  Posted: 2:21 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So, as an update, the phone interviews went well but, the first position was filled by an internal candidate and I'm waiting to hear back from the company recruiter for the second who finally called me back late this past Friday.

On a positive note, a few change requests came through for my current position that would keep me safe through the end of the year.

On a spectacular note, I had an interview for another position with the same company that filled the first position and was just given an offer. WooHoo!!! It is working in a position that has long term prospects with a mix of things that will allow me to apply what I know while being able to learn new things which will allow me better employment prospects in the future. Plus it pays more and my commute would be 15 minutes instead of 25. Such a huge relief. I will most likely accept tomorrow, even if they don't agree to more vacation.

So thank you all for all of the positive thoughts in my direction. SI mojo does work. (anecdotally... )


Me(35) XWW(36) DS(7) DD 11/16/11 EA(PA?) M 11y D 9/3/13

Don't make anyone a priority when you are only an option.


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tesla
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Default  Posted: 11:04 AM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats Waking!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 11:49 AM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wooo Hooo.... congratulations waking. That is awesome news.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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