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User Topic: Nowhere else can I share this
Helen of Troy
♀ 26419
Member # 26419
Shutup  Posted: 12:48 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Remember folks I caught him cheating multiple OW and possible OMs, I filed for divorce, and threw him out.
The me talking negatively about him to kids is 100% projection on his part, and me speaking to him in the hospital is completely false. I was there with SO(who is way better than x ever could be, treats me kindly, etc.)
All this verbal diarrhea he never once answered my logistic questions about the kids. Smokescreen.
I won't reply to him with defense, nor will I address his nastiness. My lawyer says do not allow him on property to "inspect".
Thank goodness he is her problem now, that she was willing to take in a lying homeless college drop out emotionally abusing narcissistic cheater temper tantruming, road raging idiot with debt and substantial child support obligation.
SI, thanks for being my safe place to let this out. It really doesn't sting anymore, just solidifies the fact I made the right choice by legally ending the marriage.

"I don't , didn't and never asked for your pity. Upgrade the restraining order if that's what you think you need to do. I have not spoken to you. You did speak to me in the hospital and I did not reply to you. So go ahead and file what ever you want. I really don't care. And btw the judges exact words were " in the interest of both parties" after you were done with your fake crying act. Like I was any threat to you... I did not want anything to do with you. I had and still have a wonderful woman who gladly took your place in my life. All I did was bring my daughters some gifts and didn't even get out of the car. I am still owed a chance to inspect MY property twice a year per the judge so be thinking on that one . I will need a firm date as to when. Lastly you have chosen to ignore the fact you are once again talking bad about me to the girls which is not allowed and not acceptable.
Believe me 2018 can't come quick enough for me so I never, never have to hear from or about you ever again!!!"


Posts: 4725 | Registered: Dec 2009
DeadMumWalking
♀ 25341
Member # 25341
Default  Posted: 1:36 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Believe me 2018 can't come quick enough for me so I never, never have to hear from or about you ever again!!!"

Right back atcha ASSHOLE!!!!

Oh yeah. Crickets. And a big, fat FTG.

((((will get by))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 25 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 30
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 2661 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
dmari
♀ 37215
Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He is a pathetic loser. Good riddance.


Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

Posts: 2301 | Registered: Oct 2012
Trytoletgo
♀ 33190
Member # 33190
Default  Posted: 3:37 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WGB - thank you for posting. I am having a rough day not responding to a nasty email and seeing this made me remember I am not alone. Thank YOU for sharing!


BS(me) 34, amazing son age 2
WH separates on my first Mother's Day 2011, marries OW August 2012. DDay May 1, 2012.

Posts: 54 | Registered: Aug 2011
Ashland13
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Member # 38378
Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm really sorry, WGB, and have this going on too. It's starting to escalate and be sort of like bait that I'm trying really hard not to respond to.

Yet I still have this awful grief that comes in spells and then drifts off again-I think it's for the changes in our lives more than for the being that my STBX turned into?

I wish I could just stay mad, but still my emotions flip flop. I have no So and he has OW and the loneliness is unbearable sometimes, yet there isn't anyone to criticize me but DD.

He does similar things, where he's yelled at me for things I said to our daughter, like asking her about their "plans", but then he just bombards along and tells her anything he wants.

I'm sorry for your hard times.


Ashland 13

You gave me nothing and now it's all I've got - Bono

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


Posts: 2366 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
SBB
♀ 35229
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 6:10 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Unbelievable.

I took the bait last week and I can't tell you how much I regret it.

It sent the fucker on an ego-kibble bender.

Ignore him.

I had and still have a wonderful woman who gladly took your place in my life.

The place you had in his life was of his betrayed wife. She sure did take that place. Thank fuck for that.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5656 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
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