Remember folks I caught him cheating multiple OW and possible OMs, I filed for divorce, and threw him out.
The me talking negatively about him to kids is 100% projection on his part, and me speaking to him in the hospital is completely false. I was there with SO(who is way better than x ever could be, treats me kindly, etc.)
All this verbal diarrhea he never once answered my logistic questions about the kids. Smokescreen. 
I won't reply to him with defense, nor will I address his nastiness. My lawyer says do not allow him on property to "inspect".
Thank goodness he is her problem now, that she was willing to take in a lying homeless college drop out emotionally abusing narcissistic cheater temper tantruming, road raging idiot with debt and substantial child support obligation.
SI, thanks for being my safe place to let this out. It really doesn't sting anymore, just solidifies the fact I made the right choice by legally ending the marriage.
"I don't , didn't and never asked for your pity. Upgrade the restraining order if that's what you think you need to do. I have not spoken to you. You did speak to me in the hospital and I did not reply to you. So go ahead and file what ever you want. I really don't care. And btw the judges exact words were " in the interest of both parties" after you were done with your fake crying act. Like I was any threat to you... I did not want anything to do with you. I had and still have a wonderful woman who gladly took your place in my life. All I did was bring my daughters some gifts and didn't even get out of the car. I am still owed a chance to inspect MY property twice a year per the judge so be thinking on that one . I will need a firm date as to when. Lastly you have chosen to ignore the fact you are once again talking bad about me to the girls which is not allowed and not acceptable.
Believe me 2018 can't come quick enough for me so I never, never have to hear from or about you ever again!!!"
