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stungbytravel posted 6/6/2013 12:56 PM

I am really questioning my decision to ask for divorce. I keep questioning did I do enough, wait long enough, etc

I am struggling today. I want to call him and ask him if he wants the D and if says No then ask if what are we going to do.

Please slap some sense into me.

Holly-Isis posted 6/6/2013 15:29 PM

If he wants to be in the M, he would be showing you.

If he does at some point and you still feel like accepting him, you can always stop the D or get remarried.

sisoon posted 6/6/2013 15:34 PM

Say something about why you're questioning your decision. If I don't like your answer, maybe I'll send a 2 X 4.

I'm biased toward R, but if you want to D, you've got my support. If you're not sure you want to D, I don't see anything wrong with slowing things down. If you think you may want to R, I don't see any problem exploring the possibilities.

So why exactly do you think you need more sense than you already have?

stungbytravel posted 6/6/2013 15:43 PM

If I don't like your answer, maybe I'll send a 2 X 4.

This made me laugh out loud. So thank you.

He is still seeing the OW. He took MY car to see her (see other post) and I reacted out of emotion. I was mad. When I do that I second, third, fourth guess my self.

When I called and told him I didn't really want it. He didn't say what I wanted him to say, so again emotion. I made the appointment.

truthsetmefree posted 6/6/2013 19:53 PM

You know, sbt, sometimes we only have two shitty options.

It's may not be a matter of what you want. It may be a relatively easy decision when you honestly look at what your options are as things stand now.

Hugs because it's a really tough place to be.

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