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User Topic: any one else fear
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Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

that the WS is or has gotten OP pregnant ?

Even though they say they used protection.
its a fear that has creeped its way into my head . it was a ONS with some college girl and says she had a condom and on top of that couldn't finish the act because his guilt and disgusted washed over him and kicked her out.

Im mean you don't know somebody's real intentions right??? she did just come up to him and say you want to get out here ...whats say ?

why would this girl do this ???? she knew he was married drives me crazy i know its just as much his fault and i got a whole set of issues with that ....but why???

being that he only knew her first name and that she was in college because she wore her sorority shirt and they didnt get into talking very much how if she did end up prego would she be able to contact him ....he says that there is no shred of doubt that she is not pregnant . that there is no way what so ever ....i can say i believe that but i would be a fool if i didnt entertain the thought....maybe she poked hole ???? cause you dont have to cum to get someone pregnant . my mind is crazy all day today ....ugh FML

[This message edited by huRtZ413 at 1:48 PM, June 6th (Thursday)]



Posts: 278 | Registered: May 2013
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Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I worried about that for exactly 9 months after DDay.

I had an ironclad confession that there was sex and no protection, although there was an "attempted pull out" one of the times.

I actually got to some place of peace just knowing that I had no control over it, and could only control the decisions I made every day forward.

It stinks. It's hard. Hopefully in about half a year you won't have to think about these things anymore.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

Posts: 29076 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
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Default  Posted: 1:56 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Reasons? Maybe she was a SA. Or was in a competition to see how many married men she could pick up- ego sort of thing. Maybe he looked like the boy she always wanted to date in high school but he ignored her. There are lots of ridiculous reasons.
The bottom line is that she discarded her morals and he was right there when it happened. They are both 100% responsible. And they both had 0% self esteem and 0% good judgement.
I'm sorry your thoughts are torturing you. Mine do too many days.
Eta:maybe she had no morals to discard in the first place.

[This message edited by SoVerySadNow at 1:58 PM, June 6th (Thursday)]

D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

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