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User Topic: I can't believe i'm asking this, but....
♀ 38141
Member # 38141
Default  Posted: 2:06 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

is it possible for an infection to show up much later? Or do I need to go back for testing and/or what? My wh swears the last attempted contacts did not happen in real life (text/computer only) - I was tested in the fall. My dr. said nothing about further testing. And the sucky thing about all of this is it could just be a 'run of the mill' thing that happened - but NO, my world doesn't work like that anymore.

ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse

Lawyers involved.

Posts: 689 | Registered: Jan 2013
♀ 36983
Member # 36983
Default  Posted: 2:08 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After my rape in 2001, they had me return at 4wks, 6wks, 8wks, 6mos, 12mos, and 18mos for testing (all were negative, thankfully). So, yes, infections can show up much later.

Me (34): BF, weekly IC through
Him (34): WF, PTSD Marine, beginning EMDR
Praying my way through each day.
Content (Philippians 4: 11b-13)

Posts: 613 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Pittsburgh, PA
♀ 25001
Member # 25001
Default  Posted: 2:09 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would call your doctor. If you have a concern then you should be re-tested.

I'm not sure on all STD's but can't HPV lay dormant for about 15 to 20 years, something like that.

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

Posts: 6121 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
♀ 38499
Member # 38499
Default  Posted: 2:10 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

please don't be embarrassed - we are all here for the very same reasons

i got tested immediately after d-day and again 6-months later just to be sure - thank God everything came back clean - but I'm pretty sure anything that may have been transmitted would show up within 6 months

BW - Me (33)
FWH - Him (34)
Married - 8years
D-Day - 06/06/12
Status - Trying...things are good :)

Posts: 77 | Registered: Feb 2013
♂ 38122
Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Or you can take the approach my STBXW did: "I don't think I have anything!"

We could translate that to, "I'm not feeling especially syphilitic today." What an idiot! Luckily, our tests came back clean.

And she teaches sex ed to Grade 8 students. I know that she knows better, but she is just arrogant enough to think that she can outsmart any of these STDs that dirty people get.

Me: 1970
Two sons: 2000 and 2003
Cheating louse: What's her name again?

Married Aug/95
DDay Nov/12
Separated Mar/13
Finally divorced Jul/17

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!

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