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User Topic: Tales of the Bunny, Dating Edition
♀ 19319
Member # 19319
Default  Posted: 2:39 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Or "Wow, I sure can pick em".

Went out on a first meetup with a guy from OLD on Sunday. Was in a park with his dog. Seemed all so very normal.

We chatted for about an hour before it started to get... weird. He started to talk about our two incomes combined, and moving in together in a new city. I'm thinking to myself that this seems a bit fast, but he could just be making conversation.

We part after two hours with the idea that we might meet up again in a few days for dinner.

Then they start. The texts. They cover everything from future kids/money/housing/combining pets etc. I text a girlfriend and tell her I'm getting really weirded out.

I don't respond to his texts and had in fact told him that I was busy all day/night Monday. He tries calling me around 7:30 or so and then gets extremely upset that I don't answer.

His words are "are you married" "are you playing me" "why aren't you responding to me". I remind him that I was busy and had told him as much. He loses it. "That's not what couples do, they talk about these things, you're still dating aren't you? I can smell the bullshit a mile away"

At this point in time I completely stop responding at all as he is clearly off his rocker.

His final text to me is "I want nothing to do with you anymore, good luck in life with your bullshit". Um, ok.

So in a span of about 24 hours, I went from single, to ready to move in and start a life/family to a major breakup and single again.


Posts: 204 | Registered: Apr 2008
♀ 11089
Member # 11089
Default  Posted: 2:43 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Be glad your rid of this one...NEXT!....

3 beautiful boys (21,20 & 17)
Update: Moved in to my own apartment 8/7/2012
10/27/2014-Met a wonderful man 9months ago
Divorce final 3/27/2013

Posts: 1121 | Registered: Jun 2006 | From: Pennsylvania
♀ 19319
Member # 19319
Default  Posted: 2:44 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My screen name here came to mind as this guy was a male Bunny Boiler. Not too good for this rabbit. :)

Posts: 204 | Registered: Apr 2008
♀ 30346
Member # 30346
Default  Posted: 2:52 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


me...BS, 46 years old.

Posts: 4738 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
♀ 1822
Member # 1822
Default  Posted: 2:59 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ho.lee. crap!

Divorced 9/2010
Just married 7/4/13

Posts: 4142 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: Twin Cities
♀ 28778
Member # 28778
Default  Posted: 3:17 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Now this guy is going around telling everyone women are just game players.

BW 53, divorced. XWS married OW They are welcome to each other.

Posts: 379 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: Oregon
♀ 27457
Member # 27457
Funny  Posted: 3:49 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

O.M.G!!!!! PSYCHO!!!!

Please don't cry yourself to sleep tonight over losing that winner!

"Sometimes the knight in shining armor is really a loser in tin foil!!!" TRUE QUOTE! (Especially in OLD)

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

Posts: 2767 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
♂ 38122
Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Wow, I sure can pick em".

Rabbit, I'm willing to bet it didn't say anything on his OLD profile about him being a psychotic fuckwit, so this doesn't show anything wrong with your picker.

However, if you were to go on a second date, I might have to retract that statement.

Me: 1970
Two sons: 2000 and 2003
Cheating louse: What's her name again?

Married Aug/95
DDay Nov/12
Separated Mar/13
Finally divorced Jul/17

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!

Posts: 3583 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
♂ 26023
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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's really quite funny. I could take confidence lessons from this guy

BH, now divorced

Posts: 3529 | Registered: Oct 2009 | From: New England
♀ 32810
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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just wait. You'll keep hearing from him.

I had a few who did this, not within a single date, but over the course of 2-3 weeks usually, they were ready to move in.

There are two who I just heard from this week (shut them both down immediately...have started telling them I'm seeing someone else so they will GO AWAY ) and one who, for six months, would facebook me once a month like clockwork. I think he had a reminder set up on his calendar or something. I still half expect to hear from him again, and he must be stalking my LinkedIn, because he gets suggested as a connection all. the. time. even though we don't have common connections.

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I had one of those too. Very soon after initial contact he was sending me all these texts about how he was going to take care of me. Oh boy, last thing I need right now is somebody taking care of me, thank you very much.

I did not respond, pretended to be busy, asked him not to contact me anymore.

He would be quiet for a few days, then another text. Told me he wanted to take me on a trip to Mexico with his RV. No , thank you.

So, finally, while I was out with my girlfriends he broke up with me via text.

He made our night, oh, the laughs we got out of this one...

Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1322 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
♀ 19319
Member # 19319
Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bullet dodged. I'm certain he is telling everyone what an evil manipulator I am.

Seriously we knew each other TWO hours. One Hundred Twenty minutes. That's it.

There will be no second date. I had thought about sending a text back but wrote it out and promptly deleted it. What a fucking nutjob.

Posts: 204 | Registered: Apr 2008
Grace and Flowers
♀ 34431
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Default  Posted: 11:33 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've actually had this happen several times. I must attract the crazy somehow. Or maybe its just guys my age! (I'm 50). They all seem so......needy. And then they get ANGRY when I don't answer all their text immediately. Its SO WEIRD.

I saw one guy for about a month...then one day he said "You're acting weird...what's going on...what are you doing...are you seeing someone?", etc. It came out of nowhere.

I gave up. I never found anything BUT weirdness on OLD, sadly. I saw your other thread on this topic. I am glad to say, though, that despite his MANY messages to me, I never did respond to Mr. Gunsboobs4ever. I had a feeling we might not "click".

"Absence makes the clarity grow stronger" - cantaccept

"A good man with good intentions has no reason to lie" - somer222

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