Fellow SI's I have to share my good news. Yesterday I found out that the OW is gone! She went back whence she came. Hooray! She crawled back under the rock she came out of. Phew!
Honestly it's shocking that she moved thousands of miles away. She first moved to my state about 15 years ago and now she has left. She just picked up and moved. Leaving her adult child and an ex-H behind.
This is great because she works in the same field as my H and me. There were times when our paths did cross. Buy now that won't happen again. I never ever imagined that there would be a time when I couldn't bump into her. Now I'm free. And now she is really gone from our lives. It feels great!
Our reconciliation is probably complete. The A ended three years ago. The sadness that the betrayal occurred is still there but our relationship has grown considerably since D-Day. We communicate and my H has always been very remorseful and loving since the A.
I hate that the A happened but I am lucky to have survived intact, and now i'm stronger, smarter and happier then I was before the A. My H and I weathered the storm. We saved our marriage. 😄😍
BS- me 52
WS- him 52
Two young adult kids
OW- work relationship -younger