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 changedforlife (original poster member #38474) posted at 8:26 PM on Friday, June 7th, 2013

Just noticed that there are almost 1000 new members since I joined not quite 4 months ago. Wow! It is so sad that there are so many of us in this situation and so many more that are not part of this community.

Thank you to all that have taken the time to comment on my posts and lend an ear and give advice when needed.

Me - BS Him - WH (in our 50's)Together 31 years/ 1 teenager1st D-day - Jan 24/13 #? d-days from broken no contact and continued infidelity for several years. Attempted reconciliation.July 28/23 told him it was over and he wa

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catlover50 ( member #37154) posted at 8:33 PM on Friday, June 7th, 2013

So much pain. If only we could all be kinder and more open with each other.

Thank heavens for SI.

Dday -9/23/2012
Reconciled

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movingforward13 ( member #38405) posted at 10:08 PM on Friday, June 7th, 2013

Every time I refreshed, I see a new screen name. I think 10 people joined today alone.

Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

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PurpleBirch ( member #39170) posted at 1:57 AM on Saturday, June 8th, 2013

It is sad. At least we have each other for support like you said.

Me: BS (32)
Him: WH (31)
Married 3 years.
Confessed to PA April 21 2013.

DS (6), DS (18 months)

Aug 30 2013 He gives me back his ring with an ultimatum: "Get over it or get out".

Status: Done like dinner

posts: 277   ·   registered: May. 4th, 2013   ·   location: The frozen North, eh?
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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 4:30 AM on Saturday, June 8th, 2013

I think 10 people joined today alone

We have an average of 15-20 registrations a day...I'm always relieved to see that someone in need found support

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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cuppacoffee ( member #39313) posted at 6:30 AM on Saturday, June 8th, 2013

I am so grateful for si. Even in the past three weeks I've learned more and gotten more out of my marriage in a long time. It just sucks we all ha to find each other and share knowledge because of unfortunate events.

I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you

posts: 363   ·   registered: May. 20th, 2013
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