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JessicaFL127 posted 6/7/2013 19:06 PM

Ugh. This dating thing is brutal. I recently ran into a doctor who worked at a research lab that I worked with quite a bit in 2010. I remembered him and wound up giving him my number. He kept texting me and asking me to meet him *right now* for a drink and I had to remind him that I have two boys and can't do that but i can meet him at x day and time. Then he asked me again the same thing, two days later and got the same response. Then I asked him how his residency was going and if he was still in research, etc and he was having none of it. He just wanted me to send him a picture of myself? I sent him one and he was all" no, too many clothes!" He was just all about sex and got pissed when i laughed it off, saying he had the wrong girl for that and stopped speaking to me altogether. His last text to me was "Fine!"

nowiknow23 posted 6/7/2013 19:10 PM

Ugh.

JessicaFL127 posted 6/7/2013 19:10 PM

Sorry, my phone is simple today. This guy is just one example, but he surprised me since we had met before and he didn't seem like a teenage boy then. (he is 28) I always get the "you are beautiful, let's meet RIGHT NOW" or "you are beautiful, why are you still wearing clothes?" Ugh. I don't want to have to deal with this junk.

Nature_Girl posted 6/7/2013 20:01 PM

Oh my gosh, yeah, why ARE you still wearing clothes?

Amazonia posted 6/7/2013 20:07 PM

Ugh. I don't want to have to deal with this junk.

So....I misread "this" as "his"

JessicaFL127 posted 6/7/2013 20:54 PM

Ama. That is probably the next flavor of creeper that I will have to deal with- the guy with the junk pics. Lord, this is seriously depressing, I am just about to throw in the towel.

kernel posted 6/7/2013 21:11 PM

Well, if you've found every creep in St. Louis, then you're due to find a gem next.

persevere posted 6/7/2013 21:28 PM

That guy is a loser....you definitely deserve way better - glad he showed you who he was so quickly though.

Grace and Flowers posted 6/7/2013 21:43 PM

Jessica...
I'm in STL too...and OLD has been utterly dismal for me. I've had married guys contact me, convicted felons, guys with no jobs who would like to move in with me , and yes...the "junk pic" guys. Guys who seem normal....until they get my phone number and start texting a million times a day. I am so tired of being asked to Skype with guys to watch them get off.

Is it St. Louis? Is it me? I tried several different OLD sites....my profiles were innocuous, my pics chaste, my intentions VERY clear (no ONS, FWBs, etc).

I never even met a guy I wanted to just stay friends with. Ugh.

Weirdly, I DID meet a guy through an unrelated (not dating) Craigslist ad. We struck up a friendship, and now we're dating and having fun.

But if/when we break it off, I don't think I'll be going back to OLD. It was just too weird and creepy.

nowiknow23 posted 6/7/2013 21:52 PM

Note to self: don't date in St. Louis

Ugh. I don't want to have to deal with this junk.

So....I misread "this" as "his"

Um, yeah. Me too.

JessicaFL127 posted 6/7/2013 22:09 PM

Thanks, girls. I talked to a good friend tonight about it also and i feel better having gotten it out. I just really am not sure I want to keep sorting through the creeps and weirdos, especially since they seem to be all I find.

Amazonia posted 6/8/2013 16:22 PM

I know a couple great guys I can introduce you to, Jessica. Their names are Ben and Jerry. We're pretty close, but I can share.

Threnody posted 6/8/2013 16:25 PM

Kind of a topic jerk, but what do you do with the junk photos? I'd be tempted to keep them then send them to the fools who say things like "No, too many clothes!"

caregiver9000 posted 6/8/2013 16:33 PM

oh, geesh, I have been around too many teenage boys in my lifetime....

t/j "topic jerk" ? I always thought it was "thread jack" ........... and NEITHER one is exactly appropriate for this topic!!

Amazonia posted 6/8/2013 16:47 PM

Thren!

That's actually maybe the best idea I've ever heard.

Housefulloflove posted 6/8/2013 16:52 PM

Threnody!!

I've had some "junk" photos recently sent to me by a guy I VERY recently met (we didn't meet online). Apparently being sent a penis-pic is the new "getting to know each other".

I was going to just delete them but now...

Amazonia posted 6/8/2013 16:55 PM

Apparently being sent a penis-pic is the new "getting to know each other"

I know, right!?

I'm always tempted to be like, "Oh, thanks for warning me ahead of time so I wouldn't be surprised..."

WakingFromADream posted 6/8/2013 17:01 PM

"Oh, thanks for warning me ahead of time so I wouldn't be surprised..."

Truth in advertising?

InTheRabbitHole posted 6/8/2013 17:28 PM

I just don't get this. Penis is great.. provided I'm in the same room. Who sends junk shots out in to the universe??

kernel posted 6/8/2013 18:45 PM

Kind of a topic jerk, but what do you do with the junk photos? I'd be tempted to keep them then send them to the fools who say things like "No, too many clothes!"

Thren, that is genius!

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