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Topic: Last night I dreamt that X and I were still M
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Dreamboat
♀ 10506
Member # 10506 |  Posted: 9:15 AM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013 |     |
And he cheated again and I was freaking out and stressed out running around closing bank accounts and credit cards and trying to figure out were I was going to live. It took me quite a while after I woke up to realize that that we did not stay together after the first time and I had not been M to him for a very long time and I did not have to do anything.
What a freaking nightmare, literally!
And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine
Posts: 17695 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :) |
BrokenSpirit50
♀ 34485
Member # 34485 | | Posted: 12:19 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Dreamboat, eeesh I hate when that happens. Been there...blah. Here to sweeter dreams....
Me BS 54
Him WH 55
M 32 yrs - together 40 yrs
Kids 0
D-Day 12-18-11 (WH didn't want to R)
Divorced 6-21-12 Done!
If the grass is greener on the other side....water your own lawn.
Posts: 240 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Midwest |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 12:22 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013 | |
You can call me NIK
"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman
Posts: 27143 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
gma56
♀ 19595
Member # 19595 | | Posted: 2:24 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Thank goodness it was only a dream/nightmare !
Can you imagine if that was your life now ?
A dream like that just reminds you to continue counting those blessings.
Gma
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
Posts: 20394 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be.. |
fraeuken
♀ 30742
Member # 30742 | | Posted: 3:00 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Agree with gma. I have those types if dreams occasionally too and always have a sigh of relief when I wake up
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
Posts: 1263 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California |
Housefulloflove
♀ 38458
Member # 38458 | | Posted: 3:33 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013 | |
Hate those dreams!
Lately mine has not included infidelity...we'll just be married and living like before DDay as though it never happened. I use to wake up sad from them but now I wake up happy that we are not together.
Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013
Posts: 541 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA |
Runningaway
♀ 30707
Member # 30707 | | Posted: 11:22 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013 | |
I have those sometimes! Another one is were I find out our divorce was never completed properly and we have to do it again. I sleep with my final divorce orders under my pillow. It helps.
What doesn't kill us makes us smaller. - Mario
Posts: 270 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Canada |
Dreamboat
♀ 10506
Member # 10506 | | Posted: 12:24 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013 | |
I sleep with my final divorce orders under my pillow.
That is funny.
I have to tell you that the feelings in the dream were exactly the same stress and panic that I felt during that time between dday and the D. Except I was scared that he would not take the money I had saved since then!!
It was such a relief to wake up and realize that it was NOT my life because I chose to D him so long ago. And at the same time I felt sad for the folks who tried to make R work with an unremorseful spouse and were stuck in limbo for years only to have that final burst of stress and panic because the unremorseful WS once again screwed them. I almost wanted to make a movie of the dream and show it to the folks in JFO as a warning.
And the consequence of the dream is that now I am reluctant to sleep for fear of another dream. sigh...
Infidelity -- the gift that just keeps messing with your head!
Thanks for the support everyone 
And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine
Posts: 17695 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :) |
fraeuken
♀ 30742
Member # 30742 | | Posted: 12:26 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013 | |
I am so with Dreamboat. To wake up and know it was just a bad dream, priceless.
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
Posts: 1263 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California |
SBB
♀ 35229
Member # 35229 | | Posted: 12:36 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013 | |
After breaking NC and sending the sad clown on an ego kibble bender (complete with approaching me at a school event to hand a PillowPet to me which he could have just returned to daycare at any stage) - I woke laughing from a dream where he was asking for R. I laughed my arse off, so much so I woke myself laughing.
I'm still laughing now just thinking about it.
Not even if he were the last man alive - I'd rather sew it up.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Posts: 5781 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia |
Sad in AZ
♀ 24239
Member # 24239 | | Posted: 6:49 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013 | |
I think you gave me a brain worm!  Last night I dreamt we were considering R and he was still cheating (a different OW this time) and that he was into all kinds of weird and kinky stuff--and that my family liked him!!  I'm still in a bad mood!
May your 2015 be more FUCK YEAH! than fuck this
Posts: 20776 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY |
Dreamboat
♀ 10506
Member # 10506 | | Posted: 10:29 PM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013 | |
EEK! Sorry SiA  
And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine
Posts: 17695 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :) |
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