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AFrayedKnot (original poster member #36622) posted at 11:30 PM on Saturday, June 8th, 2013
I know change doesn't happen over night but damn when is enough enough.....
How hard is it to be honest???
BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"
traditoperanni ( member #32660) posted at 12:36 AM on Sunday, June 9th, 2013
Chico,
It so esay to lie especially when waywards have been doing it for so long. It's easy to be a coward. Part of the lying is to cover their tracks and not face the consequences of their actions.
I've been told by my wh when I have caught him lying, even now while in MC, that he didn't want to upset me. I said UPSET me, so what, I'll get over it but I won't get over the lying because everytime you lie it just sets us back to square one.
Hopefully they will stop and maybe when we can both discuss things calmly and also listen to each other.
That's what we are trying to do.
If you are in MC, this would be something to bring up. IF not, maybe you should think about MC, it does help.
Me- BS (63)
Him-WS (63)
M- 42 yrs
dday#1 11/09, Dday #2 10/11 and many since
P.A.'s - too many to count
LTA's too many to count (one for 37 yrs)
escorts etc- way too many to count.
Broken heart- too many times to count.
R- Getting bet
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 5:03 AM on Sunday, June 9th, 2013
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