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Do the lies and half-truths ever stop?
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AFrayedKnot posted 6/8/2013 17:30 PM
I know change doesn't happen over night but damn when is enough enough.....
How hard is it to be honest???
traditoperanni posted 6/8/2013 18:36 PM
Chico,
It so esay to lie especially when waywards have been doing it for so long. It's easy to be a coward. Part of the lying is to cover their tracks and not face the consequences of their actions.
I've been told by my wh when I have caught him lying, even now while in MC, that he didn't want to upset me. I said UPSET me, so what, I'll get over it but I won't get over the lying because everytime you lie it just sets us back to square one.
Hopefully they will stop and maybe when we can both discuss things calmly and also listen to each other.
That's what we are trying to do.
If you are in MC, this would be something to bring up. IF not, maybe you should think about MC, it does help.
jo2love posted 6/8/2013 23:03 PM
(((Chicho)))