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User Topic: Do the lies and half-truths ever stop?
♂ 36622
Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 5:30 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know change doesn't happen over night but damn when is enough enough.....

How hard is it to be honest???

BS 42
fWS 38 (SurprisinglyOkay)
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2859 | Registered: Aug 2012
♀ 32660
Member # 32660
Default  Posted: 6:36 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It so esay to lie especially when waywards have been doing it for so long. It's easy to be a coward. Part of the lying is to cover their tracks and not face the consequences of their actions.
I've been told by my wh when I have caught him lying, even now while in MC, that he didn't want to upset me. I said UPSET me, so what, I'll get over it but I won't get over the lying because everytime you lie it just sets us back to square one.
Hopefully they will stop and maybe when we can both discuss things calmly and also listen to each other.
That's what we are trying to do.
If you are in MC, this would be something to bring up. IF not, maybe you should think about MC, it does help.

Me- BS (63)
Him-WS (63)
M- 42 yrs
dday#1 11/09, Dday #2 10/11 and many since
P.A.'s - too many to count
LTA's too many to count (one for 37 yrs)
escorts etc- way too many to count.
Broken heart- too many times to count.
R- Getting bet

Posts: 449 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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