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User Topic: Mediation / Divorice time
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Default  Posted: 7:26 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can anyone give me and idea of how long it takes to be divorced if mediation goes well.
I very much doubt mine will be settled by mediation but one can always hope.

Your prison is walking through this world all alone.

Posts: 350 | Registered: Jan 2009
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Default  Posted: 8:19 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's different everywhere copout. For me, it wasn't court ordered mediation. My XH and I chose to go to a divorce mediator to help us write up the sep agreement. We did that in about 5 visits because he didn't have his brain, it was in the OW's lap. We did the mediation in June/July, signed the papers by mid August, I had the papers in my hand and mortgage in my name by Sept 3.

The next summer I filed the D papers. He was a bit upset I filed with Adultery as the reason, but eventually signed, and I was divorced for Christmas.

BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.

Posts: 5919 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
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Default  Posted: 8:31 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had court-ordered mediation because the courts are so busy here anyone who does not come up with a settlement on their own prior to their court date has to do mediation.

Mediation was on a Thursday, we came to an agreement somewhere around 5:30 PM, and as soon as it was signed my attorney told me we'd be going to the judge first thing the next morning with the agreement. So the next day I stood before the judge and got to hear the words "Divorce granted."

There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown

Posts: 13033 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartof, Texas
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