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Antiversary -- and I am happy

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JustForgave posted 6/9/2013 09:52 AM

Today marks one year from the date Wh told me he wanted a divorce and he had "kissed" someone else.

What a year. It has given the word "suck" a whole new level of crappiness, and I have had to search inside myself for strength that I never knew I had. Wh, too, has done a buttload of work, after lots and LOTS of fucking up.

Today, I am in a place more wonderful than I ever imagined I would see. I have let go of (most of!) the anger and hate towards the OWs, because I see who and what they are, which is, basically, broken and sad and grasping for what happiness they thought they could get with my husband. Wh and I have a relationship based on honesty and truth, open communication and teamwork. We support each other and care about each other's feelings.

More personally, I am changing in so many ways, I can't count them. I am taking back some of the things I gave away years ago--my sense of self and the right to do things that are important to me. I am exploring new avenues and inviting new people into my life.

I am loving it all. It feels good.

sinsof thefather posted 6/9/2013 10:30 AM

Glad to see you doing well JustForgave.

Skan posted 6/9/2013 17:18 PM

Good for you! My 1 year DDay anniversary was Saturday, and I too, am in such a better place!

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