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isadora (original poster member #29130) posted at 7:57 PM on Sunday, June 9th, 2013
Well the Blackhawks are in the Stanley Cup finals, DDay 1 is 6/14. This time three years ago, Blackhawks were in the finals, FWH was out watching games at "friends" so he wouldn't wake the kids by yelling at tv. In reality he was out with OW2 watching the games. The parade celebrating the cup was 2 days before DDay. FWH, OW2 and OWBH were watching parade on the street with DD1 in tow. I was in my office on Michigan Avenue watching with my co-workers (and DD2). Oh and I was 8 months pg with DS1.
I erased most of the pics from the parade because OW2 was in them.
We moved to southern Indiana this past fall. FWH has watched the games all at home.
I like hockey, just have a tough time watching these days.
FWH bought a stupid mini replica stanley cup when he was out with OW2 after dday. I always wanted him to toss it, but when we moved he left in the apartment accidentally (MIL and I both refused to be responsible for it). So at least I didn't have that reminder any more.
But here we are again, Blackhawks screwed up and won. I don't trigger to often any more, but I think this could be a doozy.
Me: BW Him: who cares
Divorced: 4/2015
2 DDs and 2DSs
Who knows how many affairs at this point
Multiple D-Days
I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.
Daisy312 ( member #36813) posted at 9:13 PM on Sunday, June 9th, 2013
Hockey is a huge trigger for me because wh and ow would text about the game while I was sleeping. I was so glad when our home team lost and was out of the finals. He stopped watching hockey for the season.
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 9:18 PM on Sunday, June 9th, 2013
..well, in that case.... I will be rooting for the Boston Bruins just to give you morale support..
Go Briuns Go!
smy
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 12:51 AM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
(((isadora))) I'm sorry.
I also am glad that infidelity did not touch hockey. Because I am a Hawks girl.
BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams
isadora (original poster member #29130) posted at 1:51 AM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
I'm healing, so this isn't a raw feeling. Just a feeling of dread that trigger will knock me off track. Maybe nothing will come of it. But I guess I'm just preparing for the worst.
Me: BW Him: who cares
Divorced: 4/2015
2 DDs and 2DSs
Who knows how many affairs at this point
Multiple D-Days
I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.
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