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fallingquickly posted 6/9/2013 23:48 PM

So far I'm doing ok but:

Tuesday real estate agent is coming to tell me what I have to have fixed before selling house

Wednesday is anniversary of DD#2 (the big one)

Wednesday afternoon contractor is coming to give me an estimate on repair that needs to be done to sell marital home

Friday is 27th wedding anniversary

I'm feeling strong right now. I just went through a bit of a slight depression but it didn't last. I hope the strength lasts through this week. I need some strong mojo.

[This message edited by fallingquickly at 11:49 PM, June 9th (Sunday)]

missmydogs posted 6/10/2013 00:17 AM

Sending lots and lots of MOJO!!

gma56 posted 6/10/2013 02:41 AM

MOJO !
I hope it all goes well !
I hope you don't too many triggers and remember the days are only days that will be gone in 24 hrs. I did that for a long time. It's only 24 hrs.
HUGS
Gma

FaithFool posted 6/10/2013 09:20 AM

Huge transitions, it will be tough but you will be fine.

Focus on DOING. Doing the stuff that needs done to sell the place, decluttering and downsizing can be therapeutic.

Big hugs. Been there, done that.

jo2love posted 6/10/2013 09:37 AM

(((falling)))

Sending mojo and strength.

fallingquickly posted 6/10/2013 15:04 PM

Thank you! The mojo is appreciated. Whenever it gets weird I take deep breaths. Every other time I've moved or sold a house it was for WHs job or a move to his dream house. One time it was to my dream house that I got to build and design. We left that for his dream house. My choice. I wanted him to have his dream.

I've never moved for such a sad reason.

Deep breaths!

caregiver9000 posted 6/10/2013 16:16 PM

continued strength headed your way!!

I like gma's advice. You can do this one day at a time.

(((falling)))

fallingquickly posted 6/11/2013 15:59 PM

Ok. One event over. Lots to fix but it will show great once it's done.

Not looking forward to tomorrow but also not overly stressing. It's weird to think of where I was a year ago. So confused about WHs actions not seeming like those of a remorseful person, a person who wanted to be married, that I started looking for more info and then found oh so much. I was such an emotional wreck then. Worst time of my life.

scotslass posted 6/11/2013 21:54 PM

Today is a new day, tomorrow is the beginning of a lovely, brand new wonderful day. Embrace tomorrow!

fallingquickly posted 6/12/2013 11:53 AM

One more down. The contractor came to see the work that needs to be done. It's going to be a big bill. :(

Not sure when the quote will come.


Today is the day. DD#2 I should feel terrible and cry but I don't. I just feel sad that he threw all this away for random drunk sex and a LTA with a married coworker who dropped him when her husband found out. I thought we had the same values and priorities but we don't. I just don't see how unprotected sex with strangers can be the most important thing.

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