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User Topic: Going to be an interesting week
fallingquickly
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Default  Posted: 11:48 PM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So far I'm doing ok but:

Tuesday real estate agent is coming to tell me what I have to have fixed before selling house

Wednesday is anniversary of DD#2 (the big one)

Wednesday afternoon contractor is coming to give me an estimate on repair that needs to be done to sell marital home

Friday is 27th wedding anniversary

I'm feeling strong right now. I just went through a bit of a slight depression but it didn't last. I hope the strength lasts through this week. I need some strong mojo.

[This message edited by fallingquickly at 11:49 PM, June 9th (Sunday)]


Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)

I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken

There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.


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missmydogs
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Default  Posted: 12:17 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending lots and lots of MOJO!!


Me 36
DS 16
DD 4

Divorced!

I've made a huge mistake - GOB


Posts: 71 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: missmydogs
gma56
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Default  Posted: 2:41 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

MOJO !
I hope it all goes well !
I hope you don't too many triggers and remember the days are only days that will be gone in 24 hrs. I did that for a long time. It's only 24 hrs.
HUGS
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20387 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 9:20 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Huge transitions, it will be tough but you will be fine.

Focus on DOING. Doing the stuff that needs done to sell the place, decluttering and downsizing can be therapeutic.

Big hugs. Been there, done that.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((falling)))

Sending mojo and strength.


Posts: 36817 | Registered: Mar 2011
fallingquickly
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Default  Posted: 3:04 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you! The mojo is appreciated. Whenever it gets weird I take deep breaths. Every other time I've moved or sold a house it was for WHs job or a move to his dream house. One time it was to my dream house that I got to build and design. We left that for his dream house. My choice. I wanted him to have his dream.

I've never moved for such a sad reason.

Deep breaths!


Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)

I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken

There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.


Posts: 455 | Registered: Aug 2012
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 4:16 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

continued strength headed your way!!

I like gma's advice. You can do this one day at a time.

(((falling)))


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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fallingquickly
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Default  Posted: 3:59 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok. One event over. Lots to fix but it will show great once it's done.

Not looking forward to tomorrow but also not overly stressing. It's weird to think of where I was a year ago. So confused about WHs actions not seeming like those of a remorseful person, a person who wanted to be married, that I started looking for more info and then found oh so much. I was such an emotional wreck then. Worst time of my life.


Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)

I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken

There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.


Posts: 455 | Registered: Aug 2012
scotslass
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Default  Posted: 9:54 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today is a new day, tomorrow is the beginning of a lovely, brand new wonderful day. Embrace tomorrow!


3 wonderful children (sometimes!!)
18 ds
16 dd
14 ds
Me. - moving on and upward !!!

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fallingquickly
♀ 36599
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Default  Posted: 11:53 AM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One more down. The contractor came to see the work that needs to be done. It's going to be a big bill. :(

Not sure when the quote will come.


Today is the day. DD#2 I should feel terrible and cry but I don't. I just feel sad that he threw all this away for random drunk sex and a LTA with a married coworker who dropped him when her husband found out. I thought we had the same values and priorities but we don't. I just don't see how unprotected sex with strangers can be the most important thing.


Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)

I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken

There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.


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