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married2stranger (original poster member #34492) posted at 6:47 AM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
I remember reading posts from a member and her Profile signature had really stuck with me. But I can't remember the exact quote. It said something like...
"Just because I filed for divorce does not mean I ended the marriage. The marriage ended when you cheated.
Or something along those lines. Does anyone know that member or that quote???
D-Day - 10/22/2011
Married 5/29/2004 together 13years!
(Me)"I've been called worse"....
(WH)"Oh yeah, like what?"
(Me)"YOUR wife!!!"
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 10:51 AM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
I think gonnabe2016 used to have something like that. If it was her though, it looks like she's since changed it.
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
debbysbaby ( member #32962) posted at 1:27 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
I believe it said "Yes, XWS, I filed for divorce, but you ended the marriage."
-betrayed almost my whole almost 15 yr marriage
-divorced since 2004
gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 2:52 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Hmmmm.....I do think I might have had something along those lines in my tag at one point. Probably as a reminder to myself of reality because Sultan kept trying to *guilt* me about filing for and wanting a divorce. But the line is definitely NOT one of my own original thoughts....I stole it from somewhere here on the board at the time. 
My favorite version of it goes something like:
WS killed the marriage. I am just giving it a proper burial.
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
married2stranger (original poster member #34492) posted at 5:27 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
I believe it said "Yes, XWS, I filed for divorce, but you ended the marriage.
"
Yep that's it thank you 
D-Day - 10/22/2011
Married 5/29/2004 together 13years!
(Me)"I've been called worse"....
(WH)"Oh yeah, like what?"
(Me)"YOUR wife!!!"
ButterflyGirl ( member #38377) posted at 5:29 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Not sure who it is, but I like the one who has, "Don't look back. It's not where you're going."
But my favorite one now has to be:
"I've been called worse"...."Oh yeah, like what?"
"YOUR wife!!!"
married2stranger (original poster member #34492) posted at 10:29 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Thanks butterfly girl. I stole it from someone on SI. I have always despised the CUNextTuesday word and WH is well aware of how disgusting and offensive I find that word. So after he used up all the usual arsenal and was unable to get a rise out of me. He bust out the big guns and fired the big C*** at me. I wish I could say that I held my composure but I did not... that did not go over so well with me. However I do not allow that word to affect me any more because he count on that to use against me, it's the one button he knows he can push. so I changed it and I'm no longer as offended of being called the C word As I am being called his wife
D-Day - 10/22/2011
Married 5/29/2004 together 13years!
(Me)"I've been called worse"....
(WH)"Oh yeah, like what?"
(Me)"YOUR wife!!!"
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