Topic: Happy birthday, SI!
Member # 32943
| Posted: 2:45 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013|
Thanks for founding this site, MH and DS. Thanks to all of you have shared your wit and wisdom and growth on this website. I have learned so much from all of you.
Me: BS, 40's.
Posts: 1860 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast
Member # 6037
| Posted: 4:22 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013|
Happy Birthday SI
I'm so glad you were here when I went through one of the hardest times in my life.
MH and DS---YOU GUYS ROCK!!!!
[This message edited by WarehouseGuy at 4:22 AM, June 10th (Monday)]
If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.
Posts: 5890 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
Member # 28997
| Posted: 4:32 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013|
Thank you so much
Married 32yrs Me BW 58Yrs Him FWH 60yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted.
Dday May 28 2010.
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck the goat"
Posts: 2772 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: Australia
Member # 37154
| Posted: 4:38 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013|
Best wishes and thanks so much!
Posts: 2003 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: northeast
Member # 37451
| Posted: 4:46 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013|
So very grateful for this site. I would not be able to get through this without all of you and your support.
It is such a comfort to know there is always someone there when you feel so alone.
Thank you for your hard work and efforts in creating this sanctuary.
"So often times it happens, that we live our lives in chains and we never even know we have the key"
I would now like to be known as Can!
dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
I attempted R, he was a lie
Posts: 2185 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Connecticut
Member # 6850
| Posted: 4:53 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013|
Happy Birthday SI !! You helped me through one of the toughest times of my life.....Thank You....HUGS
You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith
Posts: 4861 | Registered: Apr 2005 | From: Ontario
Member # 14866
| Posted: 5:18 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013|
Happy 11th Birthday!!!!
Thank you DS and MH for this site. It has been a source of healing for so many.
Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless
We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.
Posts: 54223 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Member # 33882
| Posted: 5:19 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013|
Happy Birthday SI!!! Thank you so much for being here for all of us!!!!
him (NPD Ex)
"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."
Posts: 2696 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
Member # 33698
| Posted: 5:41 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013|
Happy birthday, SI!
Thank you to MH and DS for providing the site that saved my sanity, made me realize that I wasn't alone, helped me to maintain my dignity, and prevented me from making a lot of foolish mistakes.
Plus, I've gotten to know some really cool people. I feel like it's my birthday, really.
[This message edited by tryingagain74 at 5:41 AM, June 10th (Monday)]
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Posts: 3807 | Registered: Oct 2011
Member # 2
| Posted: 8:17 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013|
Happy Birthday SI!!!
It's amazing that we've been up and running for 11 years. I'm so glad you all are here and able to use the site as a place for healing and talking to others that can relate to your feelings without judgement
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Posts: 203112 | Registered: May 2002
Member # 28555
| Posted: 8:18 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013|
Happy Birthday SI!
So nice to have this place to turn to when you have no one IRL to talk to.
"If your ideal image of yourself is in the future, it's going to stay there".
Posts: 1187 | Registered: May 2010 | From: Texas
Member # 31528
| Posted: 8:21 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013|
Happy Birthday, SI!!! Thank you for the love and support you give.
Posts: 40375 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 34086
| Posted: 8:32 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013|
Happy Birthday SI! Thanks MH and DS for creating a safe place for all of us.
Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
Posts: 4425 | Registered: Dec 2011
Member # 31094
| Posted: 8:38 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013|
Happy Birthday, SI!
Posts: 3446 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
Member # 25001
| Posted: 9:06 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013|
Happy Birthday SI.
I can't possibly thank MH and DS enough for setting up this site. I really don't know where I would be right now without the site and the connections I've made here.
(((HUGS))) and to you all
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
Posts: 6115 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
Member # 24924
| Posted: 9:06 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013|
Happy birthday SI
Thanks for saving my sanity; for helping me to realize that it was him, not me; for being the one strong voice of reason (created by the voice of many) in my crazy world; for helping me to see my way out.
Walk a Mile In My Shoes
Married 14 yrs. Now Separated & in NC
2 grown DD's - his from previous M
4 grown kids (2DS, 2DD) mine from previous M
Posts: 3204 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Ohio
Member # 20150
| Posted: 9:08 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013|
Thankyouthankyouthankyou! And Happy Birthday!!
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Posts: 18427 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Member # 36711
| Posted: 9:13 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013|HUGE
And Happy Birthday SI!
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.
Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
Member # 10552
| Posted: 9:13 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013|
Gosh, SI is only six months older than the youngest banana.
Happy birthday, SI! The good you've done is truly beyond measure.
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Posts: 15584 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Member # 11606
| Posted: 9:34 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013|
Happy Birthday, SI!
Much love and blessings to you, DS and MH. There are no words to say how grateful I am for the hard work and care you have put into this place of such hope and help.
Thank you for creating such a safe place for us. Also, thank you for appointing such wonderful moderators and guides. We are all so lucky that you take the time each day to support us.
BS 42 (Me)
M 23 years
Three Children ages 20, 17, and 8
D-Day 08/10/2004, 7-Year LTA that ended 4 months before D-Day.
Evil never thinks it's evil, it always has a really good reason. ~ Joan of Arcadia, TV Series
Posts: 4558 | Registered: Aug 2006 | From: Pacific Northwest
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