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User Topic: He's about to be fired, dont want our R impacted
♀ 39433
Member # 39433
Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My fiancÚ is likely going to be fired today for standing up to his long abusive boss and I'm supporting him but concerned that our R will be impeded by the loss of money and attention as he will likely be reeling from the loss soon. I don't feel comfortable bringing up our R right now and things feel odd.

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♀ 39460
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Default  Posted: 10:47 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I keep worrying my SAWS will lose his job because he just doesn't care about it like he did before all of his cheating came out.
I worry, like you, if we don't have money on top of this broken mess, that will only add more stress to an impossibly stressful situation. {{HUGS}}

HIM~SAWS prostitutes multiple times, who knows what else?
Status~ Changes from day to day in my mind

Posts: 27 | Registered: Jun 2013
♀ 37575
Member # 37575
Default  Posted: 11:36 AM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's so scary to be worrying about a job on top of this! We have had to deal with 8 months of cancer and now WH must find another job closer to home. It's very stressful.
However, I feel that working on R is still the priority. I am not willing to set it aside until the job situation is more secure. I do understand that he has to spend a lot of time on the job search which is good, but he has to be involved in R too.
I think any of life's stresses can/will impact R. What I think is important is that you go through the stress together. Maybe you will find it as a time to lean on each other and make a stronger bond. That's my hope anyway!
But honestly, I have many days where I say, why does all this have to happen all at once????!
Good luck to you, I hope things work out for the best. When one door closes another one opens kind of thing!
Take care!

Me: BW Him: FWH in our 50's
DDay June 1st 2012
cheated with prostitutes overseas

Posts: 700 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Out West
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