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He's about to be fired, dont want our R impacted

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anonymous823 posted 6/10/2013 10:40 AM

My fiancé is likely going to be fired today for standing up to his long abusive boss and I'm supporting him but concerned that our R will be impeded by the loss of money and attention as he will likely be reeling from the loss soon. I don't feel comfortable bringing up our R right now and things feel odd.

MissLonelyHeart posted 6/10/2013 10:47 AM

I keep worrying my SAWS will lose his job because he just doesn't care about it like he did before all of his cheating came out.
I worry, like you, if we don't have money on top of this broken mess, that will only add more stress to an impossibly stressful situation. {{HUGS}}

PinkJeepLady posted 6/10/2013 11:36 AM

It's so scary to be worrying about a job on top of this! We have had to deal with 8 months of cancer and now WH must find another job closer to home. It's very stressful.
However, I feel that working on R is still the priority. I am not willing to set it aside until the job situation is more secure. I do understand that he has to spend a lot of time on the job search which is good, but he has to be involved in R too.
I think any of life's stresses can/will impact R. What I think is important is that you go through the stress together. Maybe you will find it as a time to lean on each other and make a stronger bond. That's my hope anyway!
But honestly, I have many days where I say, why does all this have to happen all at once????!
Good luck to you, I hope things work out for the best. When one door closes another one opens kind of thing!
Take care!

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