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LoveActually posted 6/10/2013 14:45 PM

My husband was working late and I was bored--so what better time to check the cell phone bill as I do from time to time. Yes, even after all this time I still get a funny feeling and go on a hunt--which, who knows, I may do for life unfortunately. So, checking through and all of a sudden I see this sickeningly familiar pattern with the a long distance number--going on for the last 2 months. The number was the 2nd most called number behind mine. Calls from the number were coming in extremely early in the morning while I was still asleep and he called it always right after talking to me or right before--just like he did before when he was cheating. My stomach flipped and I started shaking uncontrollably! Thoughts raced through my head--all of the things I was going to say and do to him to ruin his life. How could he do this to me again--I screamed that out loud! He got home and I was barely able to get words out--I showed him the number and the cell phone bill "evidence". He got a confused look on his face and said, "Honey--it's the contractor that has been doing our backyard renovations for the last 2 months--look at your phone he calls you too!" I looked at my phone and there was the number glaring out from my call log. Ughh, never been so happy and relieved to be a crappy detective!

libertyrocks posted 6/10/2013 14:51 PM


Awesome!

I did that too and realized it was my other line at work!! The other number on phone bill was me.

FaithFool posted 6/10/2013 14:54 PM

OMG, that's hilarious. Kind of...

Glad he took it so well.

JanaGreen posted 6/10/2013 15:04 PM

Oh God, I've done that sort of thing too. Glad it was nothing!

neverwantedaWW posted 6/10/2013 15:07 PM

I have done that too.

Jrazz posted 6/10/2013 15:17 PM

Ughh, never been so happy and relieved to be a crappy detective!

I can so relate, LA.

(((LoveActually)))

NoraLee posted 6/10/2013 15:29 PM

BTDT!!! Isn't the relief you feel incredible!!! It's worth feeling like a boob for getting it wrong!

I'm glad your story has a happy ending!

HFSSC posted 6/10/2013 17:17 PM

<raises hand sheepishly>

I actually paid $9.95 to some search engine to find out that a number on my H's phone was the call phone from work. I PAID to find out it was me that he was talking to.

Take2 posted 6/10/2013 17:26 PM

I haven't done this but I wanted to say I'm thrilled for you with the way he took it!

Dance4Me posted 6/10/2013 17:28 PM

Omg - Love ...I was so scared reading your post - you are on my timeline and I have been rooting for you through our journey! I thought you were gonna say you had another dday! Please don't scare me like that ever again! Lol

BTW -I still check from time to time - and there is nothing to be seen or found! But as you know, there are always other methods of contact...I shudder to think that - but it is true! Sad....

Beautifulmom posted 6/10/2013 19:56 PM

So funny! Glad it worked out. Hope it gave you both a laugh!!!

LoveActually posted 6/10/2013 22:04 PM

It was pretty funny in the end and I like to refer to it as "affair humor"...only peeps like us can truly relate!

@Dance--thanks honey--you will always be one of my favs--I root for you also. We are in a good place and doing well my friend--hugs

millienotboo posted 6/11/2013 06:38 AM

HF....
"I PAID to find out it was me he was talking to" LOL!

twodoves posted 6/11/2013 08:03 AM

Oh yes, I've been there too!

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