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 FaithFool (original poster member #20150) posted at 8:53 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013

Signing off on the condo sale in about an hour.

NB :: NB :: NB

Then I don't know what I'll do with myself. Favourite pub is around the corner, is it too early to start drinking?

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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cass ( member #24261) posted at 9:07 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013

It's never too early and right now I'm raising my glass to you - well it is 9pm here

Well done and here's to a bright future.

DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.

Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 9:14 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013

YAY!!!!!

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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 FaithFool (original poster member #20150) posted at 9:14 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013

Thanks darlin. Wish I was there raising it with you!

I'd make you a bacon and avocado sandwich.

[This message edited by FaithFool at 3:16 PM, June 10th (Monday)]

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 9:44 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013

Awesome!!

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cass ( member #24261) posted at 9:48 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013

And I'd make you a haggis and turnip one

DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.

Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!

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fallingquickly ( member #36599) posted at 9:55 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013

Wow!!! Congratulations!

Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)

I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken

There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.

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gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 10:04 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013

WooHoo !

Well you can say you are mortgage free !!

Celebrate !

Gma

BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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MyVoice ( member #35695) posted at 10:45 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013

Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown

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risingfromashes ( member #3903) posted at 11:38 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013

Yeah!!!

I am so happy for you!

You have come so far.

Take time to reflect (between sips of your beverage of choice) on how you traveled this hard horrible road and found out just how strong you are!

Now you can enjoy the beauty around you.

[This message edited by risingfromashes at 5:40 PM, June 10th (Monday)]

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caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 1:01 AM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013

Yay!! A toast to you. Hope you are celebrating it and relishing it.

NB chanting commences!!

Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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 FaithFool (original poster member #20150) posted at 1:04 AM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013

Thanks guys! I'm enjoying a cold one and waiting for the boys to deliver the new cabinet (second hand) that I bought on Saturday.

It's teak laminate to match my bookshelf and big table, fits the corner space exactly and has glass doors so I have a place to show off my antique cameras and glass.

Now I'm cruising MLS and daydreaming about my next investment....

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 1:37 AM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013

Congrats! Your new place looks.....quaint!

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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 FaithFool (original poster member #20150) posted at 1:48 AM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013

double

[This message edited by FaithFool at 9:04 AM, June 11th (Tuesday)]

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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 FaithFool (original poster member #20150) posted at 1:49 AM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013

I would need a crew to come and blow it out, put in a deck and, uh, maybe a bathroom...

But it's on a half acre of sweet meadow on a beautiful hippie island and I could get it for cash!

(It's actually just an old outbuilding on bare land, they are not seriously selling it as living space LOL.)

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 1:58 AM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013

I'd live in it! (But I'd need a full-sized house to store my yarn & fabric... )

Congratulations!

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

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 FaithFool (original poster member #20150) posted at 2:20 AM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013

Where is stronger when you need him?

Shoot, now it's a beautiful evening out there, my cabinet's been delivered and I'm on my third beer.

All I feel like doing is couch surfing and having another bacon sandwich, maybe read and watch Netflix till it's bedtime.

Is that wrong?

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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tesla ( member #34697) posted at 4:19 AM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013

Congrats Faith!

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:39 AM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013

Is that wrong?

Sounds exactly right to me, FF. Enjoy!

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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 FaithFool (original poster member #20150) posted at 5:20 AM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013

Thanks NIK! Time for bed... Back to work tomorrow. Weekend's over.

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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