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JustDone posted 6/10/2013 19:57 PM

Wanting to wish you

with your mediation tomorrow.

jo2love posted 6/10/2013 20:16 PM

Good luck and sending mojo.

ButterflyGirl posted 6/10/2013 20:18 PM


Met with my lawyer today. Plan in place. Now just need some mojo!!

Most beautiful butterfly ever. Thanks again!!

ButterflyGirl posted 6/10/2013 20:22 PM

How did you know purple is my favorite color?

courageous posted 6/10/2013 20:34 PM

Good luck!

nowiknow23 posted 6/10/2013 21:14 PM

Sending you mojo, BG.

ButterflyGirl posted 6/10/2013 23:50 PM

Had an IRL friend recommend "Rolling in the Deep" tonight. Okay, some of the lyrics fit:

Finally I can see you crystal clear
Go 'ahead and sell me out and I'll lay your ship bare
See how I leave with every piece of you
Don't underestimate the things that I will do

Baby, I have no story to be told
But I've heard one on you
And I'm gonna make your head burn
Think of me in the depths of your despair
Making a home down there
As mine sure won't be shared

I'm still partial to the lyrics in the background of the chorus:

You're gonna wish you
Never had met me

[This message edited by ButterflyGirl at 11:51 PM, June 10th (Monday)]

fraeuken posted 6/11/2013 01:28 AM

Be firm and fair. I went through mediation and never once made him question my intent to go to trial if he was screwing with me. Good luck and much mojo sent to you.

Nature_Girl posted 6/11/2013 01:36 AM

Rollin' in the Deep has been one of my anthems in keeping my courage up during this divorce. May it give you the same courage & intestinal fortitude!

While we never did mediation, we did go to court. I kept a beaded bracelet in my hand that has certain beads representing certain things (Christ, strength, honesty, courage, various "fruits of the spirit"). It helped me keep my thoughts centered on character & integrity, and so the fears just didn't have any room in my head! May you also find your thoughts centered & calm.

ButterflyGirl posted 6/11/2013 09:30 AM

I went through mediation and never once made him question my intent to go to trial if he was screwing with me.

That is EXACTLY the attitude I'm going in with today. I'm still pissed I spent $5000 on a mediating puppy dog lawyer who always wanted to strike a deal with his emotionally abusive ass and let him walk all over me. I'm so glad I've been forwarding all of FuckTard's texts and emails to my new lawyer and his assistant. I spoke with the ladies in his office yesterday before my lawyer showed up, and they were telling me how they couldn't believe what a bipolar ass he is.. I said, "I know, what am I supposed to do?" And one of them was like, "Punch him in the face." Then she laughed, but she knows it's not funny..

Good luck and much mojo sent to you.

Thanks again everyone. I'm nervous! But I'm feeling so much better with my new lawyer. Like I can stand behind him and let him deal with the POS..

I will keep the fruits of the spirit in mind, Nature_Girl. Thanks for that. I have a necklace cross and a bracelet that I wear to remind me to stay calm and centered and let God take control. Though I'll probably take a Xanax before I go too

gonnabe2016 posted 6/11/2013 09:59 AM

Good luck, BG.
Dealing with this stuff is just the pits.....

nowiknow23 posted 6/11/2013 10:03 AM

BG - If it helps, picture all of us standing behind you, arms crossed and staring down STBX. And, of course, sporting killer bitch boots.

rumorhasit posted 6/11/2013 15:06 PM

Good luck today! Be strong and stand up for yourself!

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