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ToTrustAgain (original poster member #15167) posted at 5:30 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
First baby doctor appt is in 2 hours. I just took another pregnancy test and it showed negative (after getting 4 positives last week.) I'm freaking out, will know for sure in a couple of hours, but I have a horrible feeling the pit of my stomach. I didn't realize just how badly I wanted this baby until now.
Any prayers or mojo would be much appreciated.
"We will not regret the past, nor wish to shut the door on it."
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 5:37 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 6:48 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
(((TTA)))
Sending mojo and prayers.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 6:50 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
((((TTA)))) Keep breathing, honey.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 6:53 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
SoVerySadNow ( member #36711) posted at 6:58 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.
travels ( member #20334) posted at 7:00 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.
"After a breakup, the loyal one stays single and deals with the damages until healed. The other one is already in another relationship."
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 8:40 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
((((TTA))))
Sending positive thoughts and pregnancy mojo to you.
((((TTA))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
betrayedfriend ( member #19785) posted at 8:47 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.
redvixen ( member #15259) posted at 11:15 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
Me, BS Him WS early 40's at the start, cheated before and after cancer diagnosis.
Two A's, two OW's, online looking for sex partners, two false R's.
Threw him out in January 2009.
Divorce final March 30th, 2010
XWH died Dec. 2010
ToTrustAgain (original poster member #15167) posted at 1:48 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Thank you, everyone!!
Appointment went wonderfully - I am definitely still pregnant. (Defective test! Why in the world did I even take it?! Hormones make you do crazy things, apparently.)
It's still early so I am trying to contain my excitement...but everything looks good so far.
"We will not regret the past, nor wish to shut the door on it."
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 1:54 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Yay!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 1:55 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Yay!!!!!!!!!
Dreamboat ( member #10506) posted at 2:28 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 3:18 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Sending Prayers for a healthy pregnancy and healthy baby.
Hugs for you too,
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
philly172 ( member #19024) posted at 4:02 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
that is great news.. FWIW.. I have been pregnant a total of 8 times.. (5 miscarriages) & only one of my pregnancy tests was a definitive positive.. with DS1. all of the others had us looking & guessing 'hmm.. is that a positive sign or is that a minus & a speck of something.
I think some peoples urine just don't react well to the tests.. I always had to get confirmation with my doc.
"Sorry" works when a mistake is made, but not when trust is broken. So in life, make mistakes, but never break trust. Because forgiving is easy, but forgetting & trusting again is sometimes impossible
SoVerySadNow ( member #36711) posted at 4:11 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.
gonnabe2016 ( member #34823) posted at 4:16 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Congrats, TTA. I'm glad that you had good news at your appt today.
"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 6:39 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
This is great news, now stop taking those tests! 
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
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