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User Topic: First OB appt...freaking out, request for prayers
ToTrustAgain
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Default  Posted: 11:30 AM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

First baby doctor appt is in 2 hours. I just took another pregnancy test and it showed negative (after getting 4 positives last week.) I'm freaking out, will know for sure in a couple of hours, but I have a horrible feeling the pit of my stomach. I didn't realize just how badly I wanted this baby until now.

Any prayers or mojo would be much appreciated.


"We will not regret the past, nor wish to shut the door on it."

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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 11:37 AM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((TTA))

Good luck.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7862 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((TTA)))

Sending mojo and prayers.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:50 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((TTA)))) Keep breathing, honey.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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confused615
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Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying!


BS(me)42
FWH 45
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 8070 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
SoVerySadNow
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Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You have my prayers.


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
travels
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Default  Posted: 1:00 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((ToTrustAgain))))


When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.

Posts: 3785 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: PA
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 2:40 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((TTA))))

Sending positive thoughts and pregnancy mojo to you.

((((TTA))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 25 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 30
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 2712 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 2:47 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

many hugs ((TTA))


I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

Posts: 888 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA
redvixen
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Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((TTA))))))


Me, BS Him WS early 40's at the start, cheated before and after cancer diagnosis.
Two A's, two OW's, online looking for sex partners, two false R's.
Threw him out in January 2009.
Divorce final March 30th, 2010

XWH died Dec. 2010


Posts: 4105 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: New Jersey
ToTrustAgain
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Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you, everyone!!

Appointment went wonderfully - I am definitely still pregnant. (Defective test! Why in the world did I even take it?! Hormones make you do crazy things, apparently.)

It's still early so I am trying to contain my excitement...but everything looks good so far.


"We will not regret the past, nor wish to shut the door on it."

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!!!!!!!!!

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Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending Prayers for a healthy pregnancy and healthy baby.

Hugs for you too,

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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philly172
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Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

that is great news.. FWIW.. I have been pregnant a total of 8 times.. (5 miscarriages) & only one of my pregnancy tests was a definitive positive.. with DS1. all of the others had us looking & guessing 'hmm.. is that a positive sign or is that a minus & a speck of something.

I think some peoples urine just don't react well to the tests.. I always had to get confirmation with my doc.


"Sorry" works when a mistake is made, but not when trust is broken. So in life, make mistakes, but never break trust. Because forgiving is easy, but forgetting & trusting again is sometimes impossible

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SoVerySadNow
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Default  Posted: 10:11 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 10:16 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats, TTA. I'm glad that you had good news at your appt today.


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8251 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 12:39 AM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is great news, now stop taking those tests!


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 25 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 30
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 2712 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
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