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She11ybeanz posted 6/11/2013 13:28 PM

Okay....so I was just in the breakroom of my office and that show "The Talk" is on and they were discussing OLD! (ironic huh!)

This woman had been talking to this gentleman from an OLD site and he got her phone number and before they had even met he just forwarded her a full (head to toe) naked shot of himself full frontal and all!

She responded..."What makes you think that you can sexually harass and disrespect women that you don't even know?" "I think that's a conversation that you should have with your mother!"

She then, Googled his mother's information and forwarded his mother his picture!!!!

I'm sorry...but I don't know who you are but that's funny right there!!! Why didn't I think of that all of the times that has happened to me!

sadtoo posted 6/11/2013 13:58 PM

Seriously,
Are there really any women out there who get those pics, text back and say, "Come on over RIGHT NOW!" ???
I mean, WTF? That is so gross!

She11ybeanz posted 6/11/2013 14:10 PM

No kidding! The worst one I ever got was a picture of a guys LIMP little buddy....

Um.....SERIOUSLY!!! Got me all hot and bothered... had to take a cold shower...

SBB posted 6/11/2013 15:43 PM

There's a lot to love about a man's body but lets face it - penis' are the funniest looking things on the planet.

The worst one I ever got was a picture of a guys LIMP little buddy....

Oh stop. My ribs!!

TrulyReconciled posted 6/11/2013 15:49 PM

kernel posted 6/11/2013 19:22 PM

Shelly, I remember reading a whole long thread about penis pics a while ago and it was hysterical. I clearly remember howling at some of your posts!

I just don't get their fascination with sending pictures of their junk to total strangers.

She11ybeanz posted 6/11/2013 19:25 PM

Like StrongButBroken said.....ICK! I mean.... "most" women don't want to see that.... sorry. I wish I could have been a fly on the wall when his mother confronted him about that pic!!! I bet he shrunk to about an inch tall and scurried under her couch like a coward!

WhiteWolfWinning posted 6/11/2013 21:50 PM

While I'm no fan of penis pictures, limp or otherwise, I feel very sorry for the mom. No matter how much of a douche this guy is, his mom sure didn't deserve that.

Wolf
(mother of a badly behaved adult child, who would be heartsick to receive such a thing)

debbysbaby posted 6/11/2013 21:54 PM

I think guys do it because...lets face it...they'd love if we did that for them so they assume we feel the same.

OnceInALifetime posted 6/11/2013 22:01 PM

Guys are visual, and these guys figure women are too.

Honestly, I have no idea how a woman could be turned on by a male body. That women ever want to have sex at all (with men, at least) completely mystifies me.

[This message edited by OnceInALifetime at 10:02 PM, June 11th (Tuesday)]

willowiris posted 6/11/2013 22:10 PM

It isn't even a matter of being visual. It is a matter of being respectful.

People are so forward now because they can hide behind forms of media to communicate. Should a man come up to a woman in the grocery store, say hi and whip out his penis? NO (because that scares people near the peanut butter!), so he shouldn't email or text pictures of his junk either.

And if she had to send it to his mom, she should have at least blurred out his private parts. No woman wants to see that of her son.

[This message edited by willowiris at 10:19 PM, June 11th (Tuesday)]

OnceInALifetime posted 6/11/2013 22:20 PM

Of course you're right, willow. But I wonder what percentage of men would feel disrespected if a woman sent a nude photo via OLD. Most would not respond, I'm sure, but I also think most wouldn't be offended, per-se (maybe a healthy dose of wtf).

I can't say how I would feel until it happens

[This message edited by OnceInALifetime at 10:24 PM, June 11th (Tuesday)]

wildbananas posted 6/11/2013 22:23 PM

Yet another reason I stay far, far away from OLD. Classy.

I feel bad for his mama receiving that...after all, he's grown ass man. He can be as big a nimrod as he likes. If he was a minor, it'd be a totally different ballgame.

(And O, I think the male body is beautiful. Lots of wimmenz do. )