Coming off of 3+ weeks of pure hell. We've been fighting over what I call a wanna be OW.
He coaches her kid and he runs the park. Boundaries were broken And lied about. She kept persisting and he wasn't firm about so I sent her a stand down message which led to a nasty exchange. His stance is both of us are wrong and he's not making her leave the park.
I even tried making peace and sitting down with her but she continued to be disrespectful. He doesn't believe she has I'll intent as a woman, I know better.
Let me take pause to say I blame him 100% its his job to protect our marriage at ALL costs and he failed
My poor daughter knows of the situation and its not a first for her. She got angry and sent this woman an angry FB message. I had no clue nor would I have allowed it. She came back at my daughter with sweet little message about how she and her children were not going anywhere. So rather than letting the parents know there was an issue it was better to go back and forth with a 15 year old girl that was trying to protect her family.
I am so angry I want to drag her across the pavement.
I have a huge stake out there as well. I have a team of cheerleaders and their families that came back because I am the coach and they are counting on me.
I sent my WH my official resignation letter from all of my hats that I wear out there. He is guilting me into staying and basically wants me to eat a huge shit sandwich and tolerate this woman putting her little pig face into everything out there.
So if I quit, my daughter and several cheerleaders will walk away and the cheer director has said she will step down as well. The cheer program will fall apart. If I stay, she will be there knowing that my husband wouldn't back me up and she won.
By the way, she's only been out there a couple months and no one else cares if she goes. I on the other hand have poured my blood, sweat and tears into that program for the last 4 years.
Another loss I take at his hand. I really hate my life today. This is one of my concessions that I have to make so everyone else gets to be happy.