She is trying so hard to insert herself into MY place.
I want my life back! I miss my life! And I can't ever get it back...
X is going to see DS this evening. If DS comes home with a damn stuffed animal I will , and put it in the garage for donation. If he doesn't come home with a stuffed animal I will be pissed off at the unequal treatment. Mrs. Robinson is in a no win situation here.
I'm lonely and feel like crap. And I'm angry.
Can she please just go away now?!
Mrs. Robinson- 41, S but still M
"You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think." - Christopher Robin
Mrs. Robinson is living in rainbow unicorn fartland if she thinks she can ever take YOUR place and is a complete idiot.
You can't stop him or her from trying to buy the kids. You can stop that crap they buy from entering your house and you having to look at it.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
Unfortunately there's not a lot you can do. My girls don't shuttle toys between homes. I make a big fuss of "oh no you should keep it at daddy's house so you have fun toys to play with over there".
I wouldn't say anything to the X. Don't make him important - he is irrelevant, treat him as such.
The only thing worse than either of those whores being around my girls is someone being unkind to them.
I know it is cold comfort but that thinking has helped me deal with a situation that I have no control or influence over. The other option is to make myself crazy which is no good for me or my girls.
If something comes home, I won't make an issue of it, just get rid of it. DS being only two makes that easier, unless its Mickey or Thomas he probably wouldn't even notice.
X and I don't talk, he arranges visits through my dad and my dad takes DS. He only asks once a week anyway. So I wouldn't be saying anything at all to him. He wanted to say he was unhappy with me and that I mentally abused him? I fixed that and vanished from his life as best I could six weeks ago. He should be on cloud nine.
I wish I could be in rainbow shitting unicorn land... being in reality sucks.