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KeepOnMovin (original poster member #38245) posted at 10:32 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
...and drink a beer by my pool, by myself. (Well, with my dog anyway) 
I have exactly 90 minutes before I have to be anywhere, an I'm not going to worry about a damn thing while I sit there!
Me: Creating a better life for myself
Her: Somebody else's problem
Married: 22 years
2 sons at home
1 son in college
Divorced on 9/4/14!
Often it's the deepest pain which empowers you to grow into your highest self.
fallingquickly ( member #36599) posted at 10:37 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
That sounds good. I may do the same by my pool since I won't have one once I sell the marital home. I may even have two since I'm not going anywhere tonight.
Cheers.
Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)
I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken
There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.
KeepOnMovin (original poster member #38245) posted at 11:08 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
Hell yes Falling, have two! It's 95 degrees out here, and the water feels great!
I'm sorry about you losing the pool soon. :-/
Wish I could invite everyone of you SI'ers over for a swim. 
Me: Creating a better life for myself
Her: Somebody else's problem
Married: 22 years
2 sons at home
1 son in college
Divorced on 9/4/14!
Often it's the deepest pain which empowers you to grow into your highest self.
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 7:40 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Pool and beer is exactly what we mean taking time for yourself. May not want to do this everyday but once in awhile, hell yes !
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
fallingquickly ( member #36599) posted at 7:49 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Thanks. I'll miss the pool. It's very natural looking and beautiful. The house is on an acre and a half wooded lot. So pretty. I'll be buying a very small house for myself once divorced to make the money stretch as far as possible. I will miss the natural beauty of this house.
Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)
I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken
There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.
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