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Divorce/Separation :
To Hell with this! I'm goin home!

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 KeepOnMovin (original poster member #38245) posted at 10:32 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013

...and drink a beer by my pool, by myself. (Well, with my dog anyway)

I have exactly 90 minutes before I have to be anywhere, an I'm not going to worry about a damn thing while I sit there!

Me: Creating a better life for myself
Her: Somebody else's problem
Married: 22 years
2 sons at home
1 son in college
Divorced on 9/4/14!
Often it's the deepest pain which empowers you to grow into your highest self.

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fallingquickly ( member #36599) posted at 10:37 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013

That sounds good. I may do the same by my pool since I won't have one once I sell the marital home. I may even have two since I'm not going anywhere tonight.

Cheers.

Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)

I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken

There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.

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 KeepOnMovin (original poster member #38245) posted at 11:08 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013

Hell yes Falling, have two! It's 95 degrees out here, and the water feels great!

I'm sorry about you losing the pool soon. :-/

Wish I could invite everyone of you SI'ers over for a swim.

Me: Creating a better life for myself
Her: Somebody else's problem
Married: 22 years
2 sons at home
1 son in college
Divorced on 9/4/14!
Often it's the deepest pain which empowers you to grow into your highest self.

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gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 7:40 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013

Pool and beer is exactly what we mean taking time for yourself. May not want to do this everyday but once in awhile, hell yes !

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It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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fallingquickly ( member #36599) posted at 7:49 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013

Thanks. I'll miss the pool. It's very natural looking and beautiful. The house is on an acre and a half wooded lot. So pretty. I'll be buying a very small house for myself once divorced to make the money stretch as far as possible. I will miss the natural beauty of this house.

Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)

I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken

There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.

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