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rumorhasit posted 6/11/2013 19:24 PM

I want him back, I want our family back!
I wish I hadnt rashly ended things without knowing the whole story, I wish he hadn't turned his back on me when I did, and I wish we had worked this out! I wish he would dump her ass and ask to work on things! I wish he missed our family as much as I do. I wish he would realize that that crazy, manipulative bitch is CRAZY and stop listening to her!

I just want to be a family again.

roughroadahead posted 6/11/2013 19:29 PM

I hear you, and I'm right there with you. I know it's the right thing to do, but it isn't what I ever wanted. I, too, wish he had just freaking made the effort.

(((rumorhasit)))

GreenMom posted 6/11/2013 19:29 PM

((((rumorhasit))))

nowiknow23 posted 6/11/2013 19:32 PM

((((rumor))))

wontdefineme posted 6/11/2013 19:32 PM

You want your life back, not some disrespectful man who would leave his family for some skank.

Time to let your previous life behind and know life without him is better than life with him.

Now be the best mom you can be knowing your example will influence who they will be as adults.

And we know how you feel, it is the fear talking.

Take2 posted 6/11/2013 19:37 PM

((rumorhasit)) I hear your pain, I'm so sorry. It is so hard, so cruel, so unfair!

more: (((rumorhasit))))

Loyalty2Liberty posted 6/11/2013 19:46 PM

((rumorhasit))

The pain in your words is palpable. Nobody should ever be left wishing for such things.

He'll realize how manipulative and crazy she is in time. May the karma bus find him swiftly.

rumorhasit posted 6/12/2013 00:54 AM

(((Everyone))) Thank you. I just needed to let that out. When someone hurts you this way you're not supposed to want them back. And I am above begging. I am NC, bakery closed, etc. But I wish... I wish what we had was worth coming back to, to him. I feel cheap, and discarded.

Vulcanized posted 6/12/2013 00:57 AM

When someone hurts you this way you're not supposed to want them back.

Sometimes the heart needs a while to catch up with the head.

But I wish... I wish what we had was worth coming back to, to him.

I know exactly how you feel. But it is easier to just look forward, not back. There is no back there, kwim?

(((Rumor)))

bbee posted 6/12/2013 01:32 AM

Oh, honey, I hear you. Been there done that. (((rumor)))

SBB posted 6/12/2013 04:27 AM

You want your life back, not some disrespectful man who would leave his family for some skank.

Everything wontdefineme said. The OW is inconsequential - just the lowest hanging fruit. If it wasn't her it would have been someone else. She didn't use witchcraft nor does she have any voodoo powers - he made a choice. Blaming her absolves him. HE did this - not her.

A wayward always finds a way.

I went through it too with OWUglyIndian (there were lots more - she is the DD one). She looked like an scraggly Indian man. It had nothing to do with her - it was all him and the black, black hole in his soul that he needed a bandaid for.

Focus on you friend. You need to grieve the life you thought you had and the life you thought you were going to have. You never had the life you thought nor were you ever going to have that life you thought with that man.

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