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27yearsnowlost posted 6/11/2013 21:22 PM

My past story is first hurricane sandy took my house, them found out my WH cheated with a hooker for BJ's and now my son was riding his motorcycle with a few friends and person cut him off and slammed on his break going from 70mph. to 30 in a second my son when head over heals over the handle bars then let the scene. Long story short my son is in the hospital with no feeling on his left side for a few days and now starting to get some feeling back. The man was arrested and charged with road rage with the intent to kill. Plus more tickets. I just pray for no more. I'm not sure how much more I can take.......

Winter Snow posted 6/11/2013 21:40 PM

I am so sorry 27.

Hang in there. Be strong for your kiddo.

SoVerySadNow posted 6/11/2013 22:15 PM

Oh this is terrible! Your poor son. I hope he feels better quickly.

gonnabe2016 posted 6/11/2013 22:24 PM

Just keep breathing and take each thing as it comes....

debbysbaby posted 6/11/2013 22:27 PM

Oh my gosh. I hope your son makes a full recovery.

(((27)))

Hang in there. Son is the current priority. Focus on him right now.

fraeuken posted 6/11/2013 22:30 PM

Hope he is getting well soon!

AussieMum posted 6/11/2013 23:15 PM

((27years)) That is a lot of stress for one person to deal with.

I hope your son recovers very soon!

PanicAttack53 posted 6/11/2013 23:27 PM

So sorry 27. One moment at a time and hang in there. You're in all our thoughts and prayers.

h0peless posted 6/11/2013 23:33 PM

I hope your son recovers quickly and fully.

sailorgirl posted 6/11/2013 23:55 PM

I'm so sorry. Please make sure the people around you know that you're near a breaking point and need support!

solus sto posted 6/12/2013 08:29 AM

Oh, no! Prayers for your son--and for all of you. How awful

painpaingoaway posted 6/12/2013 08:39 AM

Stay strong sweetie, you can do this. I am so so sorry about your son's accident. Positive thoughts and prayers going out for you and your son.

Ashland13 posted 6/12/2013 08:50 AM

I'm sorry, 27.

Best wishes for a swift and comfortable recovery for your son.

My life is as complicated as yours, but in different ways, and what I've had to learn is, unfortunately, to basically compartmentalize.

If you can live only for the day, in a moment, and take each event or issue as it comes to you, it helps. Some of the issues of life are huge, dramatic and terrible, but in the scheme of every day, it can actually be calming to only "Live In the Now", as Wayne and Garth say.

It's really helped me to put some major life changes and issues into more perspective and making lists when you can focus helps.

Giving yourself some space to just grieve and then put it away for a while is good. Another thing that helps is appealing to your senses and breathing and counting.

I wish you well and I wish you peace.

sinsof thefather posted 6/12/2013 09:03 AM

Sending positive thoughts and prayers to you and your son.

(((((27yearsnowlost)))))

1Faith posted 6/12/2013 09:15 AM

God bless. Please hang in there and know that we are all praying for you and your family.

Kajem posted 6/12/2013 09:21 AM

Saying prayers for you and your son.

Sometimes all you can do is breathe and count the minutes till you take another breath. And that is ok.... just don't forget to breathe.

Hugs,

K

Thinkingtoomuch posted 6/12/2013 09:39 AM

Gosh, you're right about that--"how much more..." Definitely over the top. Wow.

It is true. You're forced by sheer mental exhaustion to take one moment at a time and breathe. Take care of yourself. Drink, eat, and take care of your son.

Prayers coming your way.

Josephine01 posted 6/12/2013 12:22 PM

Hugs and Prayers to you 27 and your son. Good Luck

Nailinmyforehead posted 6/12/2013 13:50 PM

Prayers for strength and healing for you and your family.

27yearsnowlost posted 6/12/2013 14:50 PM

Thanks for all the hugs and well wishes.

One breathe at a time is right....one minute at a time and my one hour at a time.

I know people said god only gives you what you can handle....but wow I think he thinks I'm Wonder Woman if that true then I want her super powers too.